my ego is taking a huge hit

I went clubbing on saturday, so i hook up with a girl. I rarely have any success with girls, this is the first time. i kissed her and she did not resist. when the club was going to close, i asked her if shes alone, she asked back why, and i said i want her, and she replied .. big fat NO. so i left her. when i was leaving, i saw her with another guy, and hes not even half as good looking as i am, shorter than me too, whatever he did/said to her, it didnt take him long to gain her trust, in the end i saw her leaving with his hand around her waist.

I cant think too much but i am really feeling massive blow to my ego. What really is wrong with me?

You sound like you have huge confidence issues. No offence.

Plus, how do you know that wasn't her boyfriend? They might have known each other for a while. Ya never know.

Anyway... You need to tell yourself YOU ARE THE MAN. If she wants to leave with someone who isn't as great as you her loss


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no chance. i was with her all night and i hugged her, kissed her, danced with her. How could he be her boyfriend ?

It's probably the fact that you think you're gods gift to women


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no

the fact that i acknowledge that i rarely have success with women before this.

and i know a few lads that gets girls almost on weekly basis, they do act like they feel they are god's gift to women. thats the bizarre part.

You sounded a little creepy with the "are you alone" line.

well tbh id be a bit wary of a stranger - a guy - who goes "are you alone?" "why?" "I want you" so idk maybe she felt it was weird/threatening to say that, maybe next time "hey, do you want to come back to mine?" or "can I have your number please?"

thats a standard conversation opener isnt it??

im definitely not creepy. and shes not just some random girl. i know her through my friend. they introduced her to me.

You sound like you have huge confidence issues. No offence. Plus, how do you know that wasn't her boyfriend? They might have known each other for a while. Ya never know.

Anyway... You need to tell yourself YOU ARE THE MAN. If she wants to leave with someone who isn't as great as you her loss . Don't beat yourself up over cłub girls. They aren't worth it. Just go in there, leave your ego out the door, have a good time and go with the flow. A confident guy will just go 'meh' and move on.


You should have cheered yourself up with fried chicken. Works for me.


Anyway, maybe you should be a bit more down to earth? Don't act like gods gift to women.


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Did she actually kiss him? He could just be a male friend

You sounded a little creepy with the "are you alone" line.