why are women harder to understand compared to men

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No man I know has expected to guess how they feel without being told. No man is expected to 'know' the problem. It's common knowledge that many men often get straight to a point were as females prefer some sweet talk, beating around the bush, a more subtle approach.

They are a bit though. I find they are nowhere near as straight forward as guys, a lot more of a guessing game, illogical at times too. I agree guys do complain about it all the time though, as do some women.

What the **** are you on about lol? Women moan and complain far more than men

But you should know some things without having to be told! A lack of emotional intelligence is so annoying.

Yeah but it's not always straight forward, sometimes a woman gets upset over something silly. It's not a big deal, it's just my opinion of how I see things. I do thing that either gender simply wont completely understand the other, I do find I'm on the same page length with most girls until it comes to logical/emotional standpoints, e.g. I prefer to take action than to be upset and feel sorry for myself, or I prefer to talk it out instead of silent treatment.

I dunno dude, some people are just like that, girls and boys, some are shy and some are just more confident than others. But seeing that she cried over what you said, she must have liked you.

Alright, tell us how it goes. Start off with something like 'about yesterday..I'm really sorry about that, I said it because I was under the impression you didn't like me and so when you said you liked me I was confused..' and so on, just explain what you thought, but remember not to say anything that might hurt her feelings, good luck!

I knew exactly what you meant and your bum does not look fat in that dress.

Do women even understand women? I've heard "I don't understand us either" a lot.

Finished maths we sat next to each other the entire class but she never looked at me or Ike and I sort of zoned out and said nothing we literally just sat down wrote and left

I will try again at break why am I so stressed around her I did nothing wrong

I hope you realise it's unfair to be so sanctimonious and also claim that girls are illogical just because they don't fit in with your logic. It's unfair talk about women in this way, when as a man you only understand things your way. So of course you would think you're 'right'. Of course, I know many girls who blurt out what they think and bring everything out into the open and many guys who remain silent and lock their emotions away so you have no clue what the hell they are thinking/feeling.

I think women appear more complicated because of your socialisation. For example, in traditional courtship women have been encouraged to be the chased ones. They have to hold back for fear of being 'slutty' and be hard-to-get, while being flirty. Society encourages people to play mind games in certain situations and it's unnecessary. It sends mixed messages.

Sorry but you do know you're getting relationship advice from a 14 year old?

Sorry but you do know you're getting relationship advice from a 14 year old?

Yeah I am giving up on girls this year I spoke to her and told her I was sorry she asked if it was joking about her breeding to change I said in the nicest possible way I was not and she needed to mature a bit she asked if I liked her I said maybe she hot me again and walked off

it it is almost exactly the same as yesterday just that I was hit twice instead of once

Well at least you apologised, did you say that you thought she hated you and got the impression of that and thus didn't really like her much yourself.

Good idea, don't think about her or feel guilty, you did apologise, I think you're on holiday now, at least you won't have to see her around for a while.

lol of all the days you pick to reply you choose today. we met again at swimming today me and my friend met her and her friend. lets just say there was no love lost. lol