Hi there - hoping someone can help me. I have been having a problem with my new girlfriend where I cannot keep an erection in certain scenarios, usually when I am about to penetrate her.
This has been an issue since we were going out, at first I put it down to stress or being tired and thought that we may never have sex but now we have gotten over that hurdle and the sex has been brilliant. However, I am still finding that there are some instances where I will lose my erection right before we are about to penetrate. I am wondering if anyone can suggest anything? I have done some research online and feel like it could be down to me being stressed, but I find that even when I dont feel stressed I am having this issue. It's almost like a self-fulfilling whole where sometimes I am worried whether I will keep the erection (like last time) and then sure as hell I do.
It is naturally annoying but heartbreaking for me as I get her to the stage where she thinks we are about to have sex and then we cannot.
Can anyone suggest anything? I am mid-20's, fairly healthy - eat well but need to do more exercise (which I am doing now), don't smoke and only drink occasionally.