Should i pay to lose my virginity
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Original post by Trigger
Well of course you are going to have the anomalies but if i was paying for a sex worker i would probable go for someone charging £70 - £100 an hour rather than £20.
I was thinking you were saying that £800/hour would be better than £400/hour (the sort of fees the magazines were paying!)
Have you considered a hook-up website?
Original post by Anonymous
Its a question I've been asking myself. I dont think im particularly bad looking however girls dont seem to be interested in me. I'm generally known as the nice guy who doesnt really have a problem with anyone. I'm nearly 19 so getting quite old to be a virgin I think and this means that the first time will becoming increasingly awkward as i get older.
So now I'm debating whether getting the first time out of the way with an escort will be good for me and give me more confidence or will it have the opposite effect. I know this needs to be answered by myself but I'm interested to see what others think.
So now I'm debating whether getting the first time out of the way with an escort will be good for me and give me more confidence or will it have the opposite effect. I know this needs to be answered by myself but I'm interested to see what others think.
During the time that I have browsed forums like this one, I have seen questions similar to this. People, around the 18-21 age group, wondering if they should pay to loose their virginity. A worthwhile and general observation that I might make is that there is a huge amount to pressure- transmitted through the media and other such outlets that presumes people should start having sex at a relatively young age. This presumption is, of course, absolutely ludicrous. Loosing ones virginity is not the groundbreaking, life-defining experience everyone seems to expect it to be. After having sex, you are the same person that you were before. It would be wrong to ail to populist pressure because you somehow feel that you should be having sex "just like everyone". Live life at your own pace and it will be a much more rewarding and fulfilling experience. Have sex, and for that matter do everything else at the right time for you.
The above leads me onto the next part of my answer. I think you've got to sit back and think about the reasons underpinning why you want sex. Yes, you might want to get it over and done with- loose your virginity, feel as if you've passed a milestone then move on with your life more confident to form relationships with women. I'm not here to judge you, if those are your rationalisations then I'd say go with it and good on you. Personally I don't think there's any shame in paying for sex. Many more people do it than anyone would care to admit.
However, most people I've seen in a situation similar to yours desire intimacy, romance and love more than they do sex. I can assure you that this is the last thing you'll experience with an escort. She is there to perform a paid service. She will, extremely well perhaps, but it will be an experience devoid of affection and love. If this is a case, my advice to you would be to build up your self esteem and confidence, get out there and meet people with similar interests. Soon enough you'll find someone who you like (and who likes you) and the rest will be history as they say!
Original post by unprinted
I was thinking you were saying that £800/hour would be better than £400/hour (the sort of fees the magazines were paying!)
Ha ha no not at all, i mean those sorts of prices are for the rich and powerful.
No! Something you can never get back and may regret afterwards.
Yes. Yes. Yes. Do it and don't tell anyone. Pay for an hour and the escort will take car of you. It will dedefinitely give you confidence
Original post by YanYan97
Depends on your budget tbh a good time will cost £££££££... A lot, so if you don't have the money either have a **** first time or get some GAMEEE!
Now that is the ****test advice I have ever heard. The man is clearly struggling
I would do it as if you wait til later and you do it with someone close to you who isn't a virgin it's going to be weird as you'll have no experience
Original post by Anonymous
Have you considered a hook-up website?
I think this is a good idea
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