To fuss or not?
Hey guys, really bored ATM so checking in here.
I'm away staying in a residential hall with 7 other girls and on the first night I slept with a girl (not sex or anything) and I may like her like a lot but idek really if I should tell her, we've known each other for like 2 weeks and on that night she told me a lot of honest stuff and I checked that she wasn't straight, but the days after she started acting really weird and not talking much or hugging me, and I keep asking her if she is ok but she says she is, and in really paranoid I've made her feel really awkward, so I don't know whether I should ask her face to face or just leave it?
I'm away staying in a residential hall with 7 other girls and on the first night I slept with a girl (not sex or anything) and I may like her like a lot but idek really if I should tell her, we've known each other for like 2 weeks and on that night she told me a lot of honest stuff and I checked that she wasn't straight, but the days after she started acting really weird and not talking much or hugging me, and I keep asking her if she is ok but she says she is, and in really paranoid I've made her feel really awkward, so I don't know whether I should ask her face to face or just leave it?
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don't keep things bottled up otherwise you'd regret it later that you should've asked. Good luck. Original post by Lil08
Ask her?
Ask her what?
Original post by lilypear
Hey guys, really bored ATM so checking in here.
I'm away staying in a residential hall with 7 other girls and on the first night I slept with a girl (not sex or anything) and I may like her like a lot but idek really if I should tell her, we've known each other for like 2 weeks and on that night she told me a lot of honest stuff and I checked that she wasn't straight, but the days after she started acting really weird and not talking much or hugging me, and I keep asking her if she is ok but she says she is, and in really paranoid I've made her feel really awkward, so I don't know whether I should ask her face to face or just leave it?
I'm away staying in a residential hall with 7 other girls and on the first night I slept with a girl (not sex or anything) and I may like her like a lot but idek really if I should tell her, we've known each other for like 2 weeks and on that night she told me a lot of honest stuff and I checked that she wasn't straight, but the days after she started acting really weird and not talking much or hugging me, and I keep asking her if she is ok but she says she is, and in really paranoid I've made her feel really awkward, so I don't know whether I should ask her face to face or just leave it?
Srs?
Original post by lilypear
Hey guys, really bored ATM so checking in here.
I'm away staying in a residential hall with 7 other girls and on the first night I slept with a girl (not sex or anything) and I may like her like a lot but idek really if I should tell her, we've known each other for like 2 weeks and on that night she told me a lot of honest stuff and I checked that she wasn't straight, but the days after she started acting really weird and not talking much or hugging me, and I keep asking her if she is ok but she says she is, and in really paranoid I've made her feel really awkward, so I don't know whether I should ask her face to face or just leave it?
I'm away staying in a residential hall with 7 other girls and on the first night I slept with a girl (not sex or anything) and I may like her like a lot but idek really if I should tell her, we've known each other for like 2 weeks and on that night she told me a lot of honest stuff and I checked that she wasn't straight, but the days after she started acting really weird and not talking much or hugging me, and I keep asking her if she is ok but she says she is, and in really paranoid I've made her feel really awkward, so I don't know whether I should ask her face to face or just leave it?
I'd wait for a little while get to know her a bit better you've only known for a short period of time which is risky.
Original post by lilypear
Ask her what?
Femella, the diminutive form of femina, meaning "woman" are very complicated human beings, their actions cannot simply be explained & judged by mere observation.
Therefore, communication is very necessary to get to the bottom of things.
Ask her why she's distant?
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Original post by Twinport53
Srs?
Srs man
Original post by lilypear
Srs man
What we gonna do with you pears?
Original post by Lil08
Femella, the diminutive form of femina, meaning "woman" are very complicated human beings, their actions cannot simply be explained & judged by mere observation.
Therefore, communication is very necessary to get to the bottom of things.
Ask her why she's distant?
Therefore, communication is very necessary to get to the bottom of things.
Ask her why she's distant?
Face to face or by messaging?
Original post by Twinport53
What we gonna do with you pears?
I'm such a wreck I've not a clue what to do
Original post by lilypear
I'm such a wreck I've not a clue what to do
I'm such a wreck I've not a clue what to do
I know you said it wasn't sexual, but did you fall asleep cuddling or anything? Is there anything you are aware of that might of made her uncomfortable?
Original post by lilypear
Face to face or by messaging?
Which ever you're comfortable with.
She must be pregnant.
Original post by Ruthless Dutchman
Hmm.. sounds like she does seem a bit wary :/ At least, that's what I'm getting from reduced talking yet saying she's fine.
Do you think you may have seemed a little too forward to her?
Do you think you may have seemed a little too forward to her?
I may have been forward, but I'm like that with everyone so I think she's aware that it's how I work...
Every now and again she hugs me but it's rare now, not really sure where I went wrong
Original post by Twinport53
I know you said it wasn't sexual, but did you fall asleep cuddling or anything? Is there anything you are aware of that might of made her uncomfortable?
We spooned asleep xo
Hold her hands and stare at her in the eye's it'll give you your answer
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Original post by lilypear
We spooned asleep xo
We spooned asleep xo
Original post by Aph
Hold her hands and stare at her in the eye's it'll give you your answer
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Nice sentence.
And no Aph, you stare at the breasts you fool.
Original post by Aph
Hold her hands and stare at her in the eye's it'll give you your answer
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I don't think she's comfortable with PDA
Original post by Twinport53
Nice sentence.
And no Aph, you stare at the breasts you fool.
Nice sentence.
And no Aph, you stare at the breasts you fool.
I spelt it right?
Well yes but the eye's for emotion the breasts for everything else
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Original post by lilypear
I don't think she's comfortable with PDA
Then just stare at her accross the room or ask
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