My bf is submissive and it's annoying

I met someone I liked but he keeps flirting wanting me to dominate me and i find it a turn off. Even when I'm just telling him off, in a serious way not sexual, it's like he enjoys it and tells me and that's also annoying.

I don't enjoy it myself and the fact he feels like I enjoy being in control of him turns me off. If anything, I would say I'd rather be the submissive one, as a girl it's natural to seek a dominate mate. But I'm not overly submissive, and just want a balanced relationship.


I wanted to know fro, girls, if you find this a turn off or I should I accept it in him?

He's not for you and you're not for him. The reason you guys initially liked one another was on a false premise.

Well that's not right either is it...

PS - it's not natural for women to seek a dominant man, not at all.

Yes it is. Women crave dominant men.

No they don't. I mean some women do. But some don't. I certainly don't and I'm a woman.

I would say I'd rather be the submissive one, as a girl it's natural to seek a dominate mate.

Ugh this line really pissed me off lmao. No its not "natural" or unnatural for a girl to want a dominant partner. All individuals are different and no two relationships or dynamics are the same. Most people are neither overly submissive or dominant and are willing to switch roles either way. I hate it when people say things like that lmao, its just shaming submissive guys and dominant girls as well as those in same sex relationships and comes from stupid heteronormative and sexist societal attitudes. Rant over
Besides that, i agree with everyone else, break up lol