Am I anti-social or whatever ?
Hi guys!
so basically I moved in late like three days later than all my flat mates. So I found that hard to make friends with them or social with them. When I see them in the kitchen and say hi and that's it. I go cook and it was so awkward. The flat is all guys and I am the only girl in the flat. And there's four guys and I only met like three of them and I barely remembered their names.What should I do ?
so basically I moved in late like three days later than all my flat mates. So I found that hard to make friends with them or social with them. When I see them in the kitchen and say hi and that's it. I go cook and it was so awkward. The flat is all guys and I am the only girl in the flat. And there's four guys and I only met like three of them and I barely remembered their names.What should I do ?
Original post by Venatal
Why not bake them a nice big cake?
Thanks for the idea I think it's a great idea but I can't bake and my cooking skills are really bad
lolOriginal post by SnoochToTheBooch
lol you made my day hahaha I didn't know that was anti-social song lol
When you see them start a conversation to do with their courses. Play truth or dear with them using a bottle? Just try something to engage with them. Good luck. 
Original post by KittyRe-play
When you see them start a conversation to do with their courses. Play truth or dear with them using a bottle? Just try something to engage with them. Good luck.
Thank you
Original post by Katieha
Guys please give me some more advice as I really don't know what to do now!!!! Thanks in advance
seriously just give it some time. some people take longer then others to really socialise and connect with people, doesnt mean you're anti social.
Original post by Katieha
Hi guys!
so basically I moved in late like three days later than all my flat mates. So I found that hard to make friends with them or social with them. When I see them in the kitchen and say hi and that's it. I go cook and it was so awkward. The flat is all guys and I am the only girl in the flat. And there's four guys and I only met like three of them and I barely remembered their names.What should I do ?
so basically I moved in late like three days later than all my flat mates. So I found that hard to make friends with them or social with them. When I see them in the kitchen and say hi and that's it. I go cook and it was so awkward. The flat is all guys and I am the only girl in the flat. And there's four guys and I only met like three of them and I barely remembered their names.What should I do ?
Erm, I dunno....how about SOCIALISE?!
Why don't you just bloody talk to them?! Ask them things etc. Of course just saying "Hi" is going to make it awkward.
been in my flat 2 weeks and dnt remember any1's name dw
Original post by BullViagra
seriously just give it some time. some people take longer then others to really socialise and connect with people, doesnt mean you're anti social.
Thank you, you make me feel much more better
Original post by Anonynous
been in my flat 2 weeks and dnt remember any1's name dw
Thank you, thanks for replying and let me know that I am not alone
Original post by Jimbo1234
Erm, I dunno....how about SOCIALISE?!
Why don't you just bloody talk to them?! Ask them things etc. Of course just saying "Hi" is going to make it awkward.
Why don't you just bloody talk to them?! Ask them things etc. Of course just saying "Hi" is going to make it awkward.
Ok I will try, thanks for the advice!
I'm the most anti social person you'll ever meet i can't stand this idea of sharing facilities and space with random folk lol , It will be awkward of course you don't know the people but honestly if you get to know them and push yourself out of your comfort zone you might surprise yourself Good luck.
Good luck.[QUOTE="Katieha;50773871"]Ok I will try, thanks for the advice![/QUOTE.
Katie don't worry this is a commonproblem.we guys really don't Mind people talking to us!!!when u see them don't talk about course that much=boring.talk about where they are from,what they were like in school ,interests and talk about their interest.because you are a bit quiet more and more guys will have interest in you now-u are mysterious!!remember it is not the looking girl that always gets guys,it is the most approachable one.what is uni like in terms of social like for a medical student?
Katie don't worry this is a commonproblem.we guys really don't Mind people talking to us!!!when u see them don't talk about course that much=boring.talk about where they are from,what they were like in school ,interests and talk about their interest.because you are a bit quiet more and more guys will have interest in you now-u are mysterious!!remember it is not the looking girl that always gets guys,it is the most approachable one.what is uni like in terms of social like for a medical student?
Thanks for all the advice xx
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