She a stood me up, why???

Maybe something came up? Maybe she has personal issues going on?

Mate calm down, something probably came up. Give her the benefit of the doubt and let her explain? You don't know anything apart from the fact that she cancelled so go in with a clear head and make it seem like everything is all good.

Maybe she genuinely couldn't make it?

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She did not say anything on text, so I would doubt she would explain in person

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Wouldn't she try to arrange another day. Many other girls would do this?

Then she's a b*tch and doesn't deserve any more of your time, to be blunt lol.

If she hasn't made any other attempt to carry stuff on it might be that she met someone else. It's harsh but it happens.

Thank you for looking, I will try to keep it short. So I got stood up by this girl who I asked to go to the cinema and eat somewhere on Saturday. I feel so sad right now because she played me. I don't mind rejection but why did she seemed so interested.

- at first we did not really click, but 2 weeks later we could not be separated.
- we shared lots of jokes, flirted a lot. My best friend also commented on how close we seemed.
- she has even started reading some of my favourite novels.
- she was hinting to me she wanted to watch a film, so I asked her, and her eyes lit up and she said yes straightway.
-yesterday she started planning other things we could do together, like she wanted to do an all nighter in the library to do research
- she started touching me everytime she wanted my attention, even though we are sat next to each in the last lecture.
- then today she said she can't go anymore, no reason or anything.

Why did she do this to me, she was interested and then she goes and stands me up.
If she said no, straightaway then fair enough.

I have a lecture with her tomorrow, what should I say, and how should I act? It is a very small lecture, so I will Definitely see her, I will be on my own because I usually go to the earlier one.

I wouldnt call that being 'stood up', i thought this was going to be you were waiting for her on the night and she didn't turn up (which is harsh and rude)

She probs genuinely can't make it, just ask her if she's free another night - don't worry about it

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Wouldn't she give a reason for not making it, or even make a reason up.
Or even try to arrange an alternative day?

Just go for it ! Live and learn buddy

Very true, so I should ask her sometime next week if she wants to do anything?

She could have been too nervous at the last minute, or even been ill and too embarrassed to say? There's endless possible reasons, and there's too little information to be hateful towards her. Even if she did purposely mess with you, if you ignore her/get angry then you'll be displaying that it worked.

I was planning to ignore her to show that I don't care, if I see her tomorrow.

Should I not do this, and just try to act normal. I think she would start messing with me agian if I do this