This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- Are you still a virgin?
- Is it weird to be 23 and single?
- Is our age gap fine for dating?
- 16 and haven't dated.
- 22 year old male virgin, can tinder be used to hook up on nights out?
- Why am I so behind everyone else
- My Crush is Perfect except for this one thing.
- Virginity
- Is being a virgin and having ZERO dating/relationship experience a turn off at 22?
- Funny leaving/yearbook awards??? e.g. most likely to...
- thoughts on 19 yo girl dating 17yo guy??
- Muslim and horny
- Scared to use a vibrator, any tips?
- Was This Creepy or Am I Sensitive?
- Why does people on reddit always criticizes a 21-23 year old dating someone 18/19?
- Am I just overthinking or could he probably be her boyfriend?
- Relationships, dating and having sex for the first time
- Late period
- I want to have a casual hookup but always get too scared to go out and meet.
- Masturbation vs sex for women
Any other 23-year old female virgins out there?
Scroll to see replies
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
ahh that's awk, I won't pretend to 100% understand what you are saying 
but I'm sorry to hear that it happened. Trust is a really important thing. I regret sharing too much about my ex on here, especially given some of the crap advice I got from trolls (don't get me wrong there was a lot of good advice re: work on my insecurities and jealousy but I listened mostly to the trolls sadly). But I needed to talk to someone detached from the whole thing. That's the risk I guess.
but I'm sorry to hear that it happened. Trust is a really important thing. I regret sharing too much about my ex on here, especially given some of the crap advice I got from trolls (don't get me wrong there was a lot of good advice re: work on my insecurities and jealousy but I listened mostly to the trolls sadly). But I needed to talk to someone detached from the whole thing. That's the risk I guess.It is important.. I won't detract from that.. But when you've been bullied for being different.. You'd see what I mean if you checked my profile.. Cheated on and singled out. Overtime I've just grown to expect the worst in people.. I'm sure it will change.. But as of now letting someone close is difficult
Yeah you do get the trolls on here and some genuine people.. Just know who they are and listen to the genuine ones
Virginity is a word because of a bunch of old people who are all dead now that had their lives revolve around a father's confidence that some children would be biologically his.
Outside of that, it should be irrelevant. It's people bumping together. Really, not a unicorn. It also has nothing to do with love or happiness so if you feel that way it's an illusion unfortunately created by the world around us. It's just, not really a thing. Unless you make it so, which you seem to have done.
People not being attracted to you is also not a fair enough reason, maybe I am wrong here but if I wanted to find a guy to shag there were plenty, and I am a bit of a man, so can hardly imagine you genuinely not having someone. Then again why on earth would you want to bang a randomer...
What haunts you is the utterly unreal depiction of sex, much like the depiction of the human body and other such things that exist solely in the fantasy universe. Reality is way more ****, and virginity means nothing. Feeling insecure about the "status" of your body as dictated by others, and hence giving the media or society ownership of yourself, however, does mean something. Start there.
Outside of that, it should be irrelevant. It's people bumping together. Really, not a unicorn. It also has nothing to do with love or happiness so if you feel that way it's an illusion unfortunately created by the world around us. It's just, not really a thing. Unless you make it so, which you seem to have done.
People not being attracted to you is also not a fair enough reason, maybe I am wrong here but if I wanted to find a guy to shag there were plenty, and I am a bit of a man, so can hardly imagine you genuinely not having someone. Then again why on earth would you want to bang a randomer...
What haunts you is the utterly unreal depiction of sex, much like the depiction of the human body and other such things that exist solely in the fantasy universe. Reality is way more ****, and virginity means nothing. Feeling insecure about the "status" of your body as dictated by others, and hence giving the media or society ownership of yourself, however, does mean something. Start there.
Original post by voiceofreason234
There is no greater reason to be on this Earth than to get laid.
Someone could cure mankind of all diseases known to exist but if they've never had sex they're a failure on a personal level.
Someone could cure mankind of all diseases known to exist but if they've never had sex they're a failure on a personal level.
You just insulted Isaac Newton O_O
Hahahahaha!
Original post by sherlockfan
Bull****. Im not scared of sex.
What if a woman is lower than a 7?
What if a woman is lower than a 7?
Then you better have a great body or you're going to have to try and pull 1. An extremely desperate, sexually frustrated lad or 2. Someone that is hammered.
Original post by LTG
Then you better have a great body or you're going to have to try and pull 1. An extremely desperate, sexually frustrated lad or 2. Someone that is hammered.
great. thanks for the advice
Original post by Ebony19
Impressive! Is it for religious reasons?
Thanks! I never got an alert for your question so sorry I missed it. It started out for religious reasons, but now just for more secular idealistic reasons. Would like to meet/help like-minded people or people who see it positively now! I'm now 32 going on 33 and very much held on
i love how shes asking for help but then criticizes virgin guys as if they dont understand. its totally normal to be a virgin. you shoudnt be mad at being lonley, you should be mad at the fact that girls like to get away with being sluts their whole life, but it sounds like youre trying to be one as well.
Not 23 yet but at this rate I will be a 23 year old virgin yay
Original post by catsis
Hey y'all! (No I didn't just join, I just made a different account)
I'm the only 23 year old virgin I know and I was just wondering if there are more people like me out there. It gets kind of lonely, especially in uni when all the girls I know are either in a serious relationship and don't go out or are slutting it out because it's our last year.
Virgin dudes, save it. This thread is not for you.
I don't know exactly what I want to achieve here, I guess I want to know I'm not the only one.
Cheers x
I'm the only 23 year old virgin I know and I was just wondering if there are more people like me out there. It gets kind of lonely, especially in uni when all the girls I know are either in a serious relationship and don't go out or are slutting it out because it's our last year.
Virgin dudes, save it. This thread is not for you.
I don't know exactly what I want to achieve here, I guess I want to know I'm not the only one.
Cheers x
You’re not alone. I’m turning 23 this year and I’m a virgin with a choice. People think I’m attractive but I never try to be close with a guy because I’m too busy for that (college) and I don’t feel ready at all. I have other issues too so that’s why I’m not feeling ready at all. Well, I’d probably be forever alone since my standard on guys is kind of high (smart, nice, looks etc) but oh well. I could lower the standard if I do feel ready for a relationship lol.
I knew a 23 yr old female virgin and a 26 yr old female virgin
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
I'm a virgin scared ****less of sex and intimacy, I'm a man and that basically makes me a huge pussy that girls laugh at, so I have to hide it and play up the other problems like being scared of women and of death.
5 years later. Still a virgin?
Related discussions
- Are you still a virgin?
- Is it weird to be 23 and single?
- Is our age gap fine for dating?
- 16 and haven't dated.
- 22 year old male virgin, can tinder be used to hook up on nights out?
- Why am I so behind everyone else
- My Crush is Perfect except for this one thing.
- Virginity
- Is being a virgin and having ZERO dating/relationship experience a turn off at 22?
- Funny leaving/yearbook awards??? e.g. most likely to...
- thoughts on 19 yo girl dating 17yo guy??
- Muslim and horny
- Scared to use a vibrator, any tips?
- Was This Creepy or Am I Sensitive?
- Why does people on reddit always criticizes a 21-23 year old dating someone 18/19?
- Am I just overthinking or could he probably be her boyfriend?
- Relationships, dating and having sex for the first time
- Late period
- I want to have a casual hookup but always get too scared to go out and meet.
- Masturbation vs sex for women
Latest
Trending
Last reply 5 days ago
If you could instantly become fluent in any foreign language which one would it be?Last reply 3 months ago
About the NCUK IFY Program for university Studies in the UKTrending
Last reply 5 days ago
If you could instantly become fluent in any foreign language which one would it be?Last reply 3 months ago
About the NCUK IFY Program for university Studies in the UK
