Hey all
Im a 22 year old male and for the whole of my life I have never had any girlfriend experience or even been on a first date. That’s not to say I have never had any chances, I was asked out only once in my whole life by one girl in year 10. However, she wasn’t my type and I didn’t think it would be fair on either of us if we did date as I would have no affection towards her.
In college I went to an almost all boy’s college as I did a trade based course. So I never had the chance to socialise with any girl.
Fast forward to 2021 when I have started uni, I felt like I had been lied too. Besides studying, I have always been told that socialising and getting girlfriends at uni would be easy. But that is further from the truth. My uni is probably very antisocial as in no one in the class or on campus is interested in forming friendships, let alone dating
My dating life hasn’t got any better at uni either. He tried clubs, bars, nothing. It’s like as if I am a plague when I put myself infront of girls.
As a 22 year old, soon to be 23 years old, I am loosing confidence and hope that I will ever have a chance to date or find a girlfriend. Lately I’ve read up on how girls prefer guys with experience and that it’s a turn off if a guy has never had any sexual experience or dating experience.
I feel like my upbringing is a lie, I’ve always been raised to respect women and to date for marriage and not to use women. However, when you see people sleeping from partner to partner, and not giving people like me a chance to date them, it makes me feel like I am a pathetic joke.
I’m not sure what to do anymore. My life has felt like a complete joke and there are times where I felt like just giving up on life completely.
What advice would you recommend for me on here, I would love to hear what everyone has to say, and why is it that it’s a turn off for someone like me at my age to not have had a girlfriend even though it’s not my choice to be like this ?
Thanks in advance for your answers, responses
B