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LDR intimacy issues

MrBean1994

Hey guys, I'm in a LDR and I'm incredibly sexually frustrated. My girlfriend will only send pics etc like once a month and has a very low sex drive. Mine is the opposite and it's horribly frustrating. She won't interact more sexually and I don't know what to do. I see her once every two months so it's ****. I really want to be with her and I'm so in love with her but I don't know what to do. I've explained how I feel and she doesn't change her mind or do anything more. Does anyone have any advice or has anyone been in this situation? Thank you

Reply 1

phunky_fresh

Well you can't force her to do something she isn't comfortable with, so you have to respect her wishes. You will either have to find something to take your mind off it and stick it out or...

Reply 2

Icebaker

I was in exactly the same situation, I hated it. She was asexual, she didn't like talking about sex stuff. I'd always be asking for pictures, but she was always very reluctant to send them. It was terrible, I'm deeply in love with her but I can't have her in the way that I want, she just doesn't feel the same way. Her mind is made up and it's impossible for me to change that. She left me.

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Reply 3

Calpurnia

You're gonna have to use your imagination a bit, unfortunately.

Just as an aside: are you sure you're in love, or just desperate to get your jollies?

Reply 4

MrBean1994

Original post by Calpurnia

You're gonna have to use your imagination a bit, unfortunately.

Just as an aside: are you sure you're in love, or just desperate to get your jollies?