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Do Muslim girls care about sex before marriage?

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Reply 40

NishaaaR

Original post by queen-bee

That's not for us to decide,God is all forgiving and he knows whether a person has good or bad intentions.

Lol, clearly! :rolleyes:

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Reply 41

StyleIcon

I'm a muslim girl and No I would never even kiss a guy before marriage :eek:

Reply 42

Lone

Original post by StyleIcon

I'm a muslim girl and No I would never even kiss a guy before marriage :eek:

Is that because you'll expect your parents to find you a rishta?

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Reply 43

Julius Search

Original post by NishaaaR

I know quite a few Muslim girls who have sex, eat pork, drink alcohol, play the lottery and smoke. Yet it baffles me to how they pray five times a day and automatically think that their "sins" have been forgiven. The guys are just as bad. What's that about?

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Strange, I have never seen a Pious Muslim girl smoke before, or in ladbrokes. :lolwut:

Imagine seeing a Muslim girl in a niqab exiting a Paddy Power betting shop.

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Reply 44

Lone

Original post by muslimguy

Depends on girl to girl depending on the level of faith, same situation with muslim men

That's true, but I'm looking to get a majority opinion. Maybe I'm expecting too much though.

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Reply 45

-Rainbow Drops-

I wouldn't have sex before marriage but not too bothered if the guy I marry isn't virgin. I dont see it as a big deal

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Reply 46

ZolaCFC25

Original post by reallydontknow

Islam is not supposed to change.

Yes, they probably are. Because harming people and stealing is probably worse than adultery. And their prayers are probably not really devout if they sin so much.

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It's evident that the Qu'ran is written to be timeless so I can't take your bland statement seriously, sorry. Whether people want to believe it or not is a different matter and up to them. People are starting to bring limits to the freedom to believe in reiigion.

Reply 47

username1533709

Original post by queen-bee

That's not for us to decide,God is all forgiving and he knows whether a person has good or bad intentions.

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They will definitely need a miracle if they smoke giving the appallingly low survival rate for lung cancer.

Reply 48

Lone

Original post by -Rainbow Drops-

I wouldn't have sex before marriage but not too bothered if the guy I marry isn't virgin. I dont see it as a big deal

But wouldn't part of you feel a little disappointed? That you've sort of saved yourself for the moment while he's probably slept with bare randoms...

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Reply 49

StyleIcon

Original post by Lone

Is that because you'll expect your parents to find you a rishta?

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Nope! There's a guy I'm going to marry after I graduate. I chose him not my parents.

Reply 50

Lone

Original post by StyleIcon

Nope! There's a guy I'm going to marry after I graduate. I chose him not my parents.

But have you been dating him beforehand? Don't bother responding if this is a little personal; but do your parents approve?

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Reply 51

-Rainbow Drops-

Original post by Lone

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I wouldn't marry someone who sleeps around tho.

I'm not too bothered if hes has 1/2 partners. Him not being a virgin wouldn't ruin the moment for me

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Reply 52

Anonymous #5

Personally for me, yes it would matter to me, buts it's not just due to religious reasons, it's also about my mindset and stuff (it's hard to explain)

Reply 53

Lone

Original post by Anonymous

Personally for me, yes it would matter to me, buts it's not just due to religious reasons, it's also about my mindset and stuff (it's hard to explain)

Try me

you can PM if you like.

Reply 54

Lone

Original post by -Rainbow Drops-

I wouldn't marry someone who sleeps around tho.

I'm not too bothered if hes has 1/2 partners. Him not being a virgin wouldn't ruin the moment for me

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Depends on the person I guess, but you've waited. So why couldn't he have done the same? It's always gonna mean more for you than it is for him that way.

Reply 55

StyleIcon

Original post by Lone

But have you been dating him beforehand? Don't bother responding if this is a little personal; but do your parents approve?

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No we met in university and my brother is always present when we meet up. It's all halal

Reply 56

iammeyouareyou

Original post by NishaaaR

Have they specifically stated that they believe their 'sins' are forgiven when they pray 5 times a day or did they say that they pray for forgiveness without necessarily mentioning whether or not they believe they have actually been forgiven?

In any case, you can be a Muslim (or a person of any faith) and still actively commit sins. Muslims are people and sometimes people will give in to desires and impulses even if they believe that what they're doing is wrong.

Reply 57

StyleIcon

Original post by Lone

Depends on the person I guess, but you've waited. So why couldn't he have done the same? It's always gonna mean more for you than it is for him that way.

Are you muslim? If yes then what are your thoughts about this?

Reply 58

Lone

Original post by StyleIcon

Are you muslim? If yes then what are your thoughts about this?

Yes I am, I feel it's a double edge sword it's like I've been saving myself for them so I'm expecting them to be the same. But then if I'm not a virgin I would feel bad because they've been saving themselves for me, it would work the other way too. There would be that sense of disappointment.

It's all subjective and really depends on the person though.

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Reply 59

Blackorgreen

I do object to sex before marriage, primarily because Islam prohibits it, but also owing to my own moral compass. I'd feel unchaste and debauched had I engaged in some sort of intimacy with some guy that I wouldn't end up marrying.

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