Hard time with the comments

My current girlfriend made a few porn movies a few years ago, and I had known about it when we started dating, but it doesn't bother me. However, recently people I know (wouldn't go as far as calling them friends) found out, and have found them online etc, making ridiculous remarks when I'm with her, and in general just been pricks. One of them even went as far as trying it on with her, but he's been dealt with. I just can't deal with the comments they're saying about her, and I want to be with her, and I don't want it to split us up, but I don't know what to do. Also before any of you want her name of course not, and no it was lesbain videos before you make jokes as well. Advice???

Reply 1

ArundelRanger

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I don't speak from experience but I imagine this goes with the territory I'm afraid.

Reply 2

MAINE.

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Nobody;s forcing you to be around these people.....just cut them out of your life.

Reply 3

ellietaylor73

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Original post by Anonymous

My current girlfriend made a few porn movies a few years ago, and I had known about it when we started dating, but it doesn't bother me. However, recently people I know (wouldn't go as far as calling them friends) found out, and have found them online etc, making ridiculous remarks when I'm with her, and in general just been pricks. One of them even went as far as trying it on with her, but he's been dealt with. I just can't deal with the comments they're saying about her, and I want to be with her, and I don't want it to split us up, but I don't know what to do. Also before any of you want her name of course not, and no it was lesbain videos before you make jokes as well. Advice???

you shouldn't have to suffer her actions, the only thing you can do is ignore them Im sure there is no way of deleting the video's , that was her past and if you can ignore it im sure they can! you are with her and obviously love her they shouldn't matter you may find the are a little jell! just take what they say with a pinch of salt its a really awkward situation, but if you like her as much as you say you will just have to take the hits :confused:

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by MAINE.

Nobody;s forcing you to be around these people.....just cut them out of your life.

I'm at university, and they live on the road I live on, and I can't just move house without paying lots of money.

Reply 5

MAINE.

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Original post by Anonymous

I'm at university, and they live on the road I live on, and I can't just move house without paying lots of money.

Just avoid and ignore them. It's only going to affect you and her if you let it.

Reply 6

silverbolt

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frankly i agree with anduelranger. To have done something like that is going to get comments.

It depends on how far your prepared to go with it.

She's done it, its not like shes killed someone.