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Masturbation

I am muslim and I am married 2 years ago. My husband is away from me. He use to come after 1.5-2 months. Before marriage I didn’t have any sexual desire, i never masturbated. But after marriage, when my husband is away, sometimes i want to have sex too badly. I don’t want to have this thing someone other than my husband so then i masturbate... is it wrong in religion?
Reply 1
depends how strong your views on religion are.

some people class it as ultra-taboo (bad) and refrain from doing it, whereas others are more relaxed about it.
Original post by Abcs12345
I am muslim and I am married 2 years ago. My husband is away from me. He use to come after 1.5-2 months. Before marriage I didn’t have any sexual desire, i never masturbated. But after marriage, when my husband is away, sometimes i want to have sex too badly. I don’t want to have this thing someone other than my husband so then i masturbate... is it wrong in religion?


https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/277162/not-permissible-for-wife-to-masturbate-without-legitimate-necessity

Hopefully this link will be helpful. It also refers to 2 other links about advice regarding this matter so you can click on them too and check if you want to
Original post by Abcs12345
I am muslim and I am married 2 years ago. My husband is away from me. He use to come after 1.5-2 months. Before marriage I didn’t have any sexual desire, i never masturbated. But after marriage, when my husband is away, sometimes i want to have sex too badly. I don’t want to have this thing someone other than my husband so then i masturbate... is it wrong in religion?

are u watching porn w hile doing it? watching porn is haram 100%
Lol it’s not about what you think. It’s about what Islam says and in Islam it is bad. It’s haram. By saying stuff like this you’re trying to justify a sin which is also a sin in Islam. If you want do a sin, we can’t stop you, you have the free will to do that, but please stop trying to justify haram as okay
Original post by Abcs12345
I am muslim and I am married 2 years ago. My husband is away from me. He use to come after 1.5-2 months. Before marriage I didn’t have any sexual desire, i never masturbated. But after marriage, when my husband is away, sometimes i want to have sex too badly. I don’t want to have this thing someone other than my husband so then i masturbate... is it wrong in religion?


It’s wrong in general. Masturbating is basically having sex with yourself so if you’re married you should only be having sex with your husband. Masturbation is sexual immorality and a sin before God.
Reply 6
Original post by chelsea.uri
It’s wrong in general. Masturbating is basically having sex with yourself so if you’re married you should only be having sex with your husband. Masturbation is sexual immorality and a sin before God.

My husband is not with me?
Original post by Abcs12345
My husband is not with me?

that doesnt matter. You should learn to wait. whats the point of marriage then?
Reply 8
Original post by NemesisVIG_
that doesnt matter. You should learn to wait. whats the point of marriage then?

No point of this kind of kind of marriage though
Original post by Abcs12345
No point of this kind of kind of marriage though

tell him to come back or go with him
It took your husband 1 month to come? maybe his penis isn’t working
Original post by Abcs12345
I am muslim and I am married 2 years ago. My husband is away from me. He use to come after 1.5-2 months. Before marriage I didn’t have any sexual desire, i never masturbated. But after marriage, when my husband is away, sometimes i want to have sex too badly. I don’t want to have this thing someone other than my husband so then i masturbate... is it wrong in religion?

As someone who has been studying Islam for a somewhat, long time, I can tell you that it is 100% haram! To try to stay away from these sort of things, try focusing on other things completely! Hope this helps and don't take this wrong way darling, we are human and we make mistakes!

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