Rape

My boyfriend attempted to finger me I told him to stop but he insisted on continuing. I am a virgin, his finger would not go in, and it was hurting.. I gave him permission to do it but he did not stop after I told him to multiple times, is this rape?

Reply 1

Big Jules

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Original post by olivia_5

My boyfriend attempted to finger me I told him to stop but he insisted on continuing. I am a virgin, his finger would not go in, and it was hurting.. I gave him permission to do it but he did not stop after I told him to multiple times, is this rape?

it's sexual assault

Reply 2

Reality Check

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Original post by olivia_5

My boyfriend attempted to finger me I told him to stop but he insisted on continuing. I am a virgin, his finger would not go in, and it was hurting.. I gave him permission to do it but he did not stop after I told him to multiple times, is this rape?

No. Rape, legally speaking, is non-consensual penile penetration. However, if you withdrew your consent to digital penetration (fingering, basically) and he continued to do it, then he has still committed a (different) crime.

Have you talked to anyone about this irl?