i think it depends;
i don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with disagreeing with a movement. i don’t subscribe to the LGBTQ movement; for my own personal reasons (i think the movement can occasionally be harmful to individuals in it, and i have other reasons too). however, i don’t hate or disrespect individuals who are homosexual, etc. i don’t vocalise my views either, as my intention isn’t to harm anyone with my views.
everyone is entitled to an opinion: for instance, i’m not religious (or atheist) but i can hold a conversation and friendship with someone who is. you don’t have to agree with people to respect them, or treat them as a human. now,, to me, a determining factor of whether i’d hang out with someone who’s “homophobic” is:
- are they openly homophobic and intend to hurt those who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community
- are they someone who makes their “hate” towards the community their personality
- is it someone who has “justified” reasons (they hate the movement for their occasional toxicity) or do they hate them because “it’s not natural” “it’s wrong” (unjustified)
ultimately it’s your choice, but if it’s something that affects how you feel, makes you unhappy and uncomfortable, then i think you should cut it out. there’s a difference between having an opinion and being a jerk and wanting to harm others.