this is anonymous. because i'm almost certain my friend uses this site.
i've (f20) been in a relationship with my partner (m23) on and off for almost two years. my best friend is also female and recently i've found out she's sexually attracted to me. (i'm asexual. my partner isn't but he's very respectful and we navigate our weird and wonderful relationship together)
my best friend is not respectful of me, my sexuality and my relationship. she keeps kissing my shoulder blade where a rather large scar sits and my neck. i dont like people touching my neck in general. and i've told my friend this many times but she won't understand, i think it's going to cost my relationship. she keeps saying its a joke but it makes me highly grossed out. she says i'm homophobic - she came out a few years ago as Lesbian.
i want to state for the record: i dont care she's a lesbian, i care that she's kind of sexually assaulting me and trying to "turn me" or something. she has some weird fantasy she can fix my asexuality.
my boyfriend says if she doesn't stop, he'll leave me. i really don't know how to deal with this. how do i navigate this? do i call the police? do i tell our professors at college. someone please help me
and before you think of posting any hateful messages, please stop and think about what you write. i'm sat here literally shaking because i have a class in three hours with this girl.
i'd rather pluck my eyeballs out than see her or be around her right now