Why do people become so uncivilised after drinking?

Some people only drink when they plan to get very drunk and are also in the habit of using alcohol as an excuse for wild criminal antics.
A few attempt to use excessive booze consumption as a partial justification of the lousy drunken decisions that they claim to regret but repeat regularly when drunk.

Being hit on by a 57 year old is strange, but the rest of what you said is pretty normal. I wouldn't call it uncivilised, they were clearly consensual and there's nothing uncivilised about girls touching guys if they're fine with it. It's not the only way people get into relationships but definitely one of them. I think it's just people see things differently. You might see it as random cheap stuff but some other people enjoy getting with people they just met and getting drunk is one way to achieve that. Theres nothing wrong with that and you should try to be less offended by it.

Hey guys, I am very curious about one topic and would be very interested to learn why in depth.

Firstly, I am from Spain, and I've lived in different countries: Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Turkey, Croatia, and recently I am in the UK. I am quite social and have been to clubbing in each of these countries. However my experience in the UK has been strange.. So we went to clubbing last Friday with my mates from the university. There were people from all ages, ranging from 20s to 50s by the look of it. I got hit on by a 57 year old lady who was with her boy friend. They were drunk but the lady knew what she was talking about. My mates told me it is quite normal in here to experience such situations.

We then went to another club and young ladies (in their 19s-20s) were doing the same. Lap dancing, banging, kissing with people they have not even seen before. Last night we went to another place and there were two girls who were literally flirting with like 6 guys at the same time. They were touching the inappropriate places of these guys.

I know that these people do not generalise the majority, but my British mates said this is usually the case in the UK. How can people have no self respect or dignity? How can they become so uncivilised when they drink two pints and become drunk? I mean I have been drunk before but I have never, and would never do stupid random cheap stuff. Like obviously these things do happen everywhere but from my experience in the listed countries it was not this bad. Anyone got any experience in this subject and would like to explain

Hey guys, I am very curious about one topic and would be very interested to learn why in depth.

Firstly, I am from Spain, and I've lived in different countries: Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Turkey, Croatia, and recently I am in the UK. I am quite social and have been to clubbing in each of these countries. However my experience in the UK has been strange.. So we went to clubbing last Friday with my mates from the university. There were people from all ages, ranging from 20s to 50s by the look of it. I got hit on by a 57 year old lady who was with her boy friend. They were drunk but the lady knew what she was talking about. My mates told me it is quite normal in here to experience such situations.

We then went to another club and young ladies (in their 19s-20s) were doing the same. Lap dancing, banging, kissing with people they have not even seen before. Last night we went to another place and there were two girls who were literally flirting with like 6 guys at the same time. They were touching the inappropriate places of these guys.

I know that these people do not generalise the majority, but my British mates said this is usually the case in the UK. How can people have no self respect or dignity? How can they become so uncivilised when they drink two pints and become drunk? I mean I have been drunk before but I have never, and would never do stupid random cheap stuff. Like obviously these things do happen everywhere but from my experience in the listed countries it was not this bad. Anyone got any experience in this subject and would like to explain

I was expecting this thread to be about violence.

Some people enjoy casual sex. That doesn't mean they lack self-respect.

I mean why is this even a question? Everyone knows that alcohol massively eliminates your inhibitions and therefore makes you do things you probably would avoid while sober. And this behaviour shouldn’t even be that much of a shock to you because in Spain there’s a very widespread stereotype that Brits are heavy and reckless drinkers and that British girls are “loose”.

Because there is a truth to the stereotype that we are uptight, private, moralistic, straight-laced etc. We have a relatively immature approach to relationships and sex compared say, to Scandanavian countries, or The Netherlands, indeed, most of Europe. However, we aren't fundamentally different in our desires, so we have developed a culture where drinking to excess and the behaviour that often accompanies it is/has been seen as a a legitimate outlet, just 'being young', an acceptable 'breaking out', relax! chill! etc. Behaving badly under the influence of alcohol has become an accepted norm. So we oscillate between the two extremes of prudishness in our daily lives to offensive excesses on those weekly/occasional thrashes.

Fortunately, we are, at a societal level, beginning to realise that our behaviour is immature and that other countries manage their alcohol intake and therefore a middle ground of behaviour much better than we do.

I notice how the examples you are providing are all about women. I am curious to know why this is?

I twerk everytime I’m drunk and uh does it really matter? Are you even drunk if you’re not going crazy or making a fool out of yourself

Hey guys, I am very curious about one topic and would be very interested to learn why in depth.

Firstly, I am from Spain, and I've lived in different countries: Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Turkey, Croatia, and recently I am in the UK. I am quite social and have been to clubbing in each of these countries. However my experience in the UK has been strange.. So we went to clubbing last Friday with my mates from the university. There were people from all ages, ranging from 20s to 50s by the look of it. I got hit on by a 57 year old lady who was with her boy friend. They were drunk but the lady knew what she was talking about. My mates told me it is quite normal in here to experience such situations.

We then went to another club and young ladies (in their 19s-20s) were doing the same. Lap dancing, banging, kissing with people they have not even seen before. Last night we went to another place and there were two girls who were literally flirting with like 6 guys at the same time. They were touching the inappropriate places of these guys.

I know that these people do not generalise the majority, but my British mates said this is usually the case in the UK. How can people have no self respect or dignity? How can they become so uncivilised when they drink two pints and become drunk? I mean I have been drunk before but I have never, and would never do stupid random cheap stuff. Like obviously these things do happen everywhere but from my experience in the listed countries it was not this bad. Anyone got any experience in this subject and would like to explain

British people(And Americans in many places) use alcohol as an excuse to do what they want to do and take no responsibility for themselves. It's one of the reasons place like Magaluf aren't big fans of Brits.

For some reason, people in Britain think alcohol's anti-anxiety properties mean it's okay to pick a fight or start a verbal war with someone. Strangely, this doesn't happen nearly so much in other cultures that drink.

So sleeping with someone random every other week is fine? Especially when you have a bf/gf? That is first off all cheating... I question their loyalty and personality.. What is the difference than going to a brothel or hookup escort to pay for sex for example?