do I have the right to be mad?

so im exclusively seeing this guy im 18 and hes 23 . He has made it Clear that I am not his girlfriend but he only wants to see me and vice versa . however he told me on the phone on Friday that he slept w another woman a month into us knowing each other . at that point in the relationship we were not exclusive but I just find it a bit off that he chooses to tell me about it now . I did get very mad abt it and did text him way too much ab it but I said sorry for that. He then sent me these messages and I do feel a bit awful that I reacted so harshly... what do I do now and am I in the wrong ?

dont care. You speak to your friends and they give you **** advice, which you dont properly assess. Instead you believe what they say and project it on me without considering that i’m on holiday with my family and told you multiple times i did not want to have that conversation then

I would get if this was about me chesting on you, or getting with someone while we were together in any form. But we were done and I had nothing to owe you because you lied to me about your age. I had no obligation to tell you any of it and the fsct that I did is bexause I trusted you to be open. Yet when im open you just use it against me
Like this is just not acceptable behaviour and I’m not happy. nd of the day I want a relationship with someone who makes me feel understood. This is meant to be a two way street.

Agree with @Surnia, and the idea of being 'exclusive' with someone who is making it clear you aren't in a relationship is preposterous, if he has made 0 commitment to you then he isn't betraying anything.

So is he right that that you're not actually in a relationship and that you lied about your age? Why do you think you're exclusive and he thinks you're his ex?

Pretty **** what he's done

Agree with @Surnia, and the idea of being 'exclusive' with someone who is making it clear you aren't in a relationship is preposterous, if he has made 0 commitment to you then he isn't betraying anything.