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Should I worry about our neighbour/friend?

My GF and I recently moved into a flat together. Things are perfect.

We've also made friends with our neighbours, a couple too themselves.

First get-together, I didn't think much of it, but last night, I've noticed that she touches me a lot. Not just quick touches, but lingering ones on my upper back and arms...

She could be just tactile, but I find it a bit odd. I don't like being touched, unless it's my GF.

Should I just let this slide?
Talk to her. Explain that you are not the type of person who likes to be touched. Do it in a way that is friendly but also straight to the point. Hopefully, if you explain to her this, she will understand and not be as physical the next time you see her. Don't say this in a rude way, as I'm fairly sure you want to stay friends with her!

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