am i just meant to be single?

im 20 and had a really unsuccessful dating history. my first boyfriend was when I was 16 and that only lasted 3 months as he was manipulative and narcissistic and pretty much abusing me. then I met someone else shortly after who I loved and we dated for 4 months, when I was going to tell him I was falling in love with him he dumped me and said there's no point in us carrying on since ill be going to uni and most long distance relationships dont work. that crushed me. when I got to uni I didn't have much luck, I dated someone else casually for 6 months but it wasn't very romantic and that ended when he moved away. at the start of this year I made the mistake of dating my flatmate who just wanted to use me and when we broke up he started seeing someone else. I'm now the only single friend in the group, all my other friends have boyfriends who genuinely care about them and they are all in love. I've never had that, I've never been complimented by a guy apart from when we are intimate and so it doesn't feel genuine. I've never had a guy want to really date me. I've pretty much been single for 3 years and I feel so pathetic. what makes it worse is that my younger sister just got out of a long term relationship and is already seeing someone else. i feel I've been really unlucky and starting to wonder if Im just not meant for love.

im 20 and had a really unsuccessful dating history. my first boyfriend was when I was 16 and that only lasted 3 months as he was manipulative and narcissistic and pretty much abusing me. then I met someone else shortly after who I loved and we dated for 4 months, when I was going to tell him I was falling in love with him he dumped me and said there's no point in us carrying on since ill be going to uni and most long distance relationships dont work. that crushed me. when I got to uni I didn't have much luck, I dated someone else casually for 6 months but it wasn't very romantic and that ended when he moved away. at the start of this year I made the mistake of dating my flatmate who just wanted to use me and when we broke up he started seeing someone else. I'm now the only single friend in the group, all my other friends have boyfriends who genuinely care about them and they are all in love. I've never had that, I've never been complimented by a guy apart from when we are intimate and so it doesn't feel genuine. I've never had a guy want to really date me. I've pretty much been single for 3 years and I feel so pathetic. what makes it worse is that my younger sister just got out of a long term relationship and is already seeing someone else. i feel I've been really unlucky and starting to wonder if Im just not meant for love.

im 20 and had a really unsuccessful dating history. my first boyfriend was when I was 16 and that only lasted 3 months as he was manipulative and narcissistic and pretty much abusing me. then I met someone else shortly after who I loved and we dated for 4 months, when I was going to tell him I was falling in love with him he dumped me and said there's no point in us carrying on since ill be going to uni and most long distance relationships dont work. that crushed me. when I got to uni I didn't have much luck, I dated someone else casually for 6 months but it wasn't very romantic and that ended when he moved away. at the start of this year I made the mistake of dating my flatmate who just wanted to use me and when we broke up he started seeing someone else. I'm now the only single friend in the group, all my other friends have boyfriends who genuinely care about them and they are all in love. I've never had that, I've never been complimented by a guy apart from when we are intimate and so it doesn't feel genuine. I've never had a guy want to really date me. I've pretty much been single for 3 years and I feel so pathetic. what makes it worse is that my younger sister just got out of a long term relationship and is already seeing someone else. i feel I've been really unlucky and starting to wonder if Im just not meant for love.