LDR blocked everywhere

We’ve been smitten and everything had been going well. Had a texting conversation about whether a country should be a federation or not. I didn’t insult or anything. Was giving my thoughts and asking what he thought. He got high and emotional. The last word was “unbelievable “ after which he blocked me literally everywhere. That was a shock. I didn’t feel it coming. It’s been more than a day now. We are long distance. I thought my old account and managed to text him after 24 hours. Apologised for hurting him, said that I don’t have enough information and I’d love to find out more. And want us to put it right. He just blocked that account as well. Is it forever over? I know he’s fiery. But I was sure he’d cool down in a day. Now I’m thinking this is it… it feels so much blown up out of proportion… what do you think? I’m going to give it a week and if all is quiet call it quits. It strikes me so immature… unless it was deal breaker for him. But there is no communication

Reply 1

Surnia

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Were you actually in a relationship? Have you ever met?

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StriderHort

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Original post by Surnia

Were you actually in a relationship? Have you ever met?

It's weird that that has to be the first query now 'Have you ever even met your partner?' :rolleyes:

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Surnia

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Original post by StriderHort

It's weird that that has to be the first query now 'Have you ever even met your partner?' :rolleyes:

And don't get me started on 'talking stage' and 'situationship'...🙄

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Anonymous #1

OP

We have met in real life. We just live in different countries. Do you think I should reach out from another page?

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Surnia

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Original post by Anonymous

We have met in real life. We just live in different countries. Do you think I should reach out from another page?

Leave well alone. He's made it clear he's too immature to communicate properly and you don't need someone like that in your life.

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Anonymous #1

OP

I really care about him. In 24 hours of blocking I texted him from a different account and he blocked it. Today I texted again from another one, he just hasn’t responded but hasn’t blocked either.

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Admit-One

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Original post by Anonymous

I really care about him. In 24 hours of blocking I texted him from a different account and he blocked it. Today I texted again from another one, he just hasn’t responded but hasn’t blocked either.

Have you considered that his response to all this is totally over the top? It’s not exactly a good sign.

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Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Admit-One

Have you considered that his response to all this is totally over the top? It’s not exactly a good sign.

I know. He can’t communicate his feelings very well. When we just met, he told me he’d had a girlfriend and only later on said he’d lied. But like, he could have said at the beginning that he’s not looking for a relationship. It’s nearly like he avoids saying things as they are. I guess I don’t like this situation and I want to have a back and forth conversation about it rather just blocking each other.

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Admit-One

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Original post by Anonymous

I know. He can’t communicate his feelings very well. When we just met, he told me he’d had a girlfriend and only later on said he’d lied. But like, he could have said at the beginning that he’s not looking for a relationship. It’s nearly like he avoids saying things as they are. I guess I don’t like this situation and I want to have a back and forth conversation about it rather just blocking each other.

So he’s:

- quick tempered
- emotionally immature
- uncommunicative
- a liar

I’d suggest time to move on and in time become smitten with someone without these qualities.

LDR blocked everywhere

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