Long distance boyfriend starting uni

Video call each day.
Why can't he come to the UK and live with you here?

And we used to call every single day. There hadn't been a day for over 2 years that we didn't call.

And what exactly did these calls consist of, because neither of you has appeared to have confronted the reality of a very LDR and all it entails? And yes, I'm in an LDR, have been for years because of career choices by my bf and I.

Just over 14 weeks together in just over 2 years isn't actually a lot of time together, especially if you were in holiday mode. OK, so there can be lots of nice words said about how you'll both cope with it all, but that's not happening. Plus he's bought an engagement ring and not used it, and now he's talking about breaking up.

Don't rely on your boyfriend for motivation and happiness; that has to come from you. If you want to change your lifestyle, explore other options. Have you spent more time in America than just a holiday to properly know the place and make it your life? What are you currently doing; have you looked at any other ways to move to the States, with a job?

And we used to call every single day. There hadn't been a day for over 2 years that we didn't call. But now he's always with "the boys" and he's become a complete immature child. And his parents really liked me because I kept him in place as he has pretty bad adhd. But he has changed so much just so he can impress his new friends and be "popular".

He wanted to propose but he said I kept giving him mixed signals. I had only seen him in holiday mode but I was going to be going at Christmas to do some actual work related stuff. Right now I've just finished my gap year and I'm going to start my Bachelor of Laws at the Open University while working at the weekends and do all my extra curricular activities. I had been all around his city and I absolutely loved it. The plan was going to be that I would finish studying my Law degree there as it is all online and then find a job. Whenever we called we would always talk. We would talk about anything and everything. We would also watch films together and play games. I have looked into other ways of moving there but the k-1 was the most reliable. Him and I actually broke up last night. We both still love eachother so much, but he couldn't see it working with his 6 years of studying full time.

Very sorry for your situation, but couples who love each other don't break up. He was finding excuses why it was difficult, why he couldn't propose, then talking of breaking up; sounds like he lost his commitment to the relationship a while ago and was just waiting to tell you.

Take time to get over this, but learn to fly solo and live your life. Take care.