How do I even start getting over someone?

I've been in a cycle where the guy I am talking to acts like he is super interested, then pulls away for around a week before coming back to me again. I like him a lot and this is taking such a mental toll on me - it's been this way for the whole four and a half months I've known him.
I also told him he's the only guy I'm talking to but he didn't say it back... I have had suspicions that there are other girls for a while now and that pretty much confirmed it. I wish I was good enough for him and I blame myself for a lot. I don't know how to get myself out of this because I crave him and his affection so much. But I also can't keep going like this because it seriously is affecting my life.

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Zarek

Try backing off totally and see what happens. But anyway, someone treating you well is a vital part of a relationship and if that’s not there, it’s far better to accept it and to get looking for someone that will. Took me a couple of hideous unrequited love experiences to appreciate this though