I’m 52 doing a computer science degree in Edinburgh and despite having other degrees and years of prof experience I decided to change career . I feel like an undergrad of 18 - is just finishing semester 1 - and I’ve never felt so lonely and isolated as I do now . I’m doing all the right pro active things -taking on responsibilities in groups but in all honesty people are lovely to me but I don’t have any common ground with them .
I think it’s daft to expect to feel comfortable in this setting -I’m their contemporary in class but so different in life experience so there’s no natural , fulfilling sense of gelling .
Is it best to get a pt job to get my social fix and not rely on uni ?