Was what I did wrong that my father had to slap me?

I’m female(16) and this is what happened. During dinner today my father was eating first like usual. My mother was serving him dinner while I read a book at the table. But it really irritated me how my father kept ordering my mother around and taking advantage of the service she was kindly providing for him.
He would ask for each thing one after the other which really got to me. I saw the tired look on my mother’s face but she didn’t say anything.
So I decided to speak out and told my father to get the things himself if he wanted.
This really provoked my father and he immediately got up and slapped me in the face. He called me disrespectful for shaming him like that. He said if I really cared about my mother then I would’ve served him dinner instead of reading a lousy book. He told me that I should watch my mouth as a girl and that it would be highly beneficial for my future.
My mother agreed and nodded to every word he said which really upset me because I initially spoke on her behalf. Was what I did wrong?