Help w/crush

r_ae113

6

Tryna ask my crush out! How should I do it while being cute? Gimme ideas ya'll! :smile:

Reply 1

Surnia

20

Why do you need to be 'cute'? Just be yourself.

Don't be vague and say "Do you want to go for coffee sometime?" Give an activity and time, eg "Do you want to go for coffee at X on Saturday? They have a great selection of drinks and cakes."

Reply 2

r_ae113

OP

6

Original post by Surnia

Why do you need to be 'cute'? Just be yourself.

Don't be vague and say "Do you want to go for coffee sometime?" Give an activity and time, eg "Do you want to go for coffee at X on Saturday? They have a great selection of drinks and cakes."

Okay! Thanks! I'm thinking of saying "hey Do you like me?" and then go from there.

Reply 3

Surnia

20

Original post by r_ae113

Okay! Thanks! I'm thinking of saying "hey Do you like me?" and then go from there.

No, that's a terrible opener! What if he says "no" and just walks away? Talk to him normally to judge his reaction and get a hint of his personality, then see if you want to ask him out. I went out with a guy for 3 months and we never discussed if we liked each other; we got talking, dated and he's now my boyfriend.

Reply 4

greentiger

14

Original post by r_ae113

Okay! Thanks! I'm thinking of saying "hey Do you like me?" and then go from there.

agreeing with Surnia. That’s the worst opener you can say. Be casual, like they said, ask to go for a drink somewhere, and if they say no just be casual and say that’s okay no worries, maybe another time! and then you’ll know they aren’t interested.

Reply 5

rafaelaaacortez

8

Original post by r_ae113

Tryna ask my crush out! How should I do it while being cute? Gimme ideas ya'll! :smile:

are you already quite close with them? if you are, then i think you should go with the other replies and ask them to go out sometime!!

Reply 6

r_ae113

OP

6

Original post by rafaelaaacortez

are you already quite close with them? if you are, then i think you should go with the other replies and ask them to go out sometime!!

I'm scared to talk to him so not really close.

Reply 7

r_ae113

OP

6

Yeah...but I have social anxiety and I'm scared to talk to him. I don't want to ask him on a date or anything. I only have like 10 minutes to talk to him cause of classes. Should I just say "Hi ______! So how are you doing?" and go from there? Should I touch his arm causually or???? Help T_T

Reply 8

rafaelaaacortez

8

Original post by r_ae113

Yeah...but I have social anxiety and I'm scared to talk to him. I don't want to ask him on a date or anything. I only have like 10 minutes to talk to him cause of classes. Should I just say "Hi ______! So how are you doing?" and go from there? Should I touch his arm causually or???? Help T_T