I went to a party last weekend and it was like some of my closest friends + people that I know less well but have met a few times.
Basically there is a guy there and we always end up talking and he’s always a bit flirty and I always got the impression that he maybe had a slight crush on me especially because my other friend has been like ‘oh he’s literally always talking about you’ etc.
Anyway, at this party he kept offering me his seat and I wanted to sit on the floor and must have said no like 4 times but he kept insisting and I was just like ‘stop being nice and just sit down’. Now to me if someone said this I wouldn’t take this badly and I don’t think any of my other friends would either but he looked a bit surprised that I’d said this? Like I couldn’t fully put a finger on it but it just seemed like this perhaps was something that upset him, I don’t fully remember the tone I said it in but now I’m wondering if he took it more seriously and got upset over it.
And then once he’d sat down I was just talking to my other friend who sat next to me and didn’t really get an opportunity to talk to me. But yeah, after that he wasn’t as talkative towards me (and he was before I said this) and I felt like he was a bit off w me. I don’t know if I’m overthinking it because I don’t know this guy well enough to be able to recognise when he’s upset but to me this seemed like he was upset (or very drunk)
But yeah, I don’t know if I’m overthinking or if this is something other people would get upset over. I don’t think I’ll see him in person again since we only really meet at parties and we’re both leaving the city soon for work anyway. We’re not close enough for me to ask if he was upset over it but also I don’t want him to think I was mean to him