How long should 'MEN' 'last' during Sex??
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Original post by Pompeygirl
I apologise i didnt mean for it to sound like a personsl attack. I probably am older though.:-P Maybe not by much though. How old are you?:-)
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You're younger. ^^ (Unless you had a birthday 9 hours ago, you are 26).
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Original post by Pompeygirl
I looked on your birth certificate.
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porn isn't real, no-one lasts over half an hour in real life. its full of edits and cuts.
secondly, im suprised a lot of people are saying an average of 20/40 minutes! unless you're counting foreplay?
The actual deed on average, is 3 minutes, assuming you're sober, have no condom on and aren't on Viagra or similar. It seems as though people are just trying to sound impressive, boasting about how long they can last, but it just sounds ridiculous.
My partners length can vary between 2-5 minutes. He one of those go at it really fast people though, which is a little disappointing. If he slowed down a little then maybe he'd hit 7 minutes, but unless he's being sensual about it rather than just shoving it in and out, i'm not going to enjoy it anyway! If you add foreplay to that, then the whole act is averaging 20-30 minutes.
secondly, im suprised a lot of people are saying an average of 20/40 minutes! unless you're counting foreplay?
The actual deed on average, is 3 minutes, assuming you're sober, have no condom on and aren't on Viagra or similar. It seems as though people are just trying to sound impressive, boasting about how long they can last, but it just sounds ridiculous.
My partners length can vary between 2-5 minutes. He one of those go at it really fast people though, which is a little disappointing. If he slowed down a little then maybe he'd hit 7 minutes, but unless he's being sensual about it rather than just shoving it in and out, i'm not going to enjoy it anyway! If you add foreplay to that, then the whole act is averaging 20-30 minutes.
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Original post by A5ko
See, now you get all pissy and assume I must be younger. I suspect in all likelihood you are in fact a lot younger than me. * Unsurprisingly you are, being only 26.
Your attempt at a personal attack out of the way; I'm not sure who you are trying to impress with your 'I expect at least 40 mins blah blah blah..' I'm sticking to my original assumption though.
Your attempt at a personal attack out of the way; I'm not sure who you are trying to impress with your 'I expect at least 40 mins blah blah blah..' I'm sticking to my original assumption though.
This comment was great. Buuurrrnn. I don't get why the person would have said 'don't get jealous cos you can't last longer' cos its not a competition. Some people would find having sex for half an hour or longer pretty terrible.
But yeah I quoted you cos I thought your message was great
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Original post by Foo.mp3
Sorry, what does?
To prolong the pleasure for you both/go for slow and sensual, and, with any luck, to build to a slow climax for the girl (feels very good, so I'm told)
To prolong the pleasure for you both/go for slow and sensual, and, with any luck, to build to a slow climax for the girl (feels very good, so I'm told)
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Original post by Lemonzaz
porn isn't real, NO-ONE LASTS OVER HALF AN HOUR IN REAL LIFE. its full of edits and cuts.
secondly, im suprised a lot of people are saying an average of 20/40 minutes! unless you're counting foreplay?
The actual deed on average, is 3 minutes, assuming you're sober, have no condom on and aren't on Viagra or similar. It seems as though people are just trying to sound impressive, boasting about how long they can last, but it just sounds ridiculous.
My partners length can vary between 2-5 minutes. He one of those go at it really fast people though, which is a little disappointing. If he slowed down a little then maybe he'd hit 7 minutes, but unless he's being sensual about it rather than just shoving it in and out, i'm not going to enjoy it anyway! If you add foreplay to that, then the whole act is averaging 20-30 minutes.
secondly, im suprised a lot of people are saying an average of 20/40 minutes! unless you're counting foreplay?
The actual deed on average, is 3 minutes, assuming you're sober, have no condom on and aren't on Viagra or similar. It seems as though people are just trying to sound impressive, boasting about how long they can last, but it just sounds ridiculous.
My partners length can vary between 2-5 minutes. He one of those go at it really fast people though, which is a little disappointing. If he slowed down a little then maybe he'd hit 7 minutes, but unless he's being sensual about it rather than just shoving it in and out, i'm not going to enjoy it anyway! If you add foreplay to that, then the whole act is averaging 20-30 minutes.
SO WRONG!
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Original post by Prune.
ignorance? what ignorance; nothing said is untrue simply because different people vary on time. In my experience, from the handful of partners I've had, this is what I've personally experienced.
And yes, I'm allowed to say that I expect 20 minutes, because its my own personal ****ing opinion. I'm not saying I demand 20 minutes of hardcore pounding but I kind of expect my man to take his time, read his own body, know when to slow down and make it nice for both of us rather than being treated as a hole in a piece of meat.
no need to act so aggressively, clearly this is a case of sour grapes; I guess you just don't like what you're hearing girls wantttttt!
And yes, I'm allowed to say that I expect 20 minutes, because its my own personal ****ing opinion. I'm not saying I demand 20 minutes of hardcore pounding but I kind of expect my man to take his time, read his own body, know when to slow down and make it nice for both of us rather than being treated as a hole in a piece of meat.
no need to act so aggressively, clearly this is a case of sour grapes; I guess you just don't like what you're hearing girls wantttttt!
So if it's okay for you to 'expect' 20 minutes, I suppose it's okay for a guy to 'expect' a woman to want to **** whenever he does.
As soon as you turn **** to do with sex around so that the pressure is upon women it's suddenly wrong.
Though I dunno why you mention that people last different amounts of time, when I myself highlighted this in my initial post and my IGNORANCE was obviously directed at those talking **** about the time people last. It was the double standards bit aimed at you.
And yeah, my entirely inconsequential ranting online is obviously an indicator of my terrible bedroom abilities. I WILL CREI NOWAo
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Original post by concubine
So if it's okay for you to 'expect' 20 minutes, I suppose it's okay for a guy to 'expect' a woman to want to **** whenever he does.
As soon as you turn **** to do with sex around so that the pressure is upon women it's suddenly wrong.
Though I dunno why you mention that people last different amounts of time, when I myself highlighted this in my initial post and my IGNORANCE was obviously directed at those talking **** about the time people last. It was the double standards bit aimed at you.
And yeah, my entirely inconsequential ranting online is obviously an indicator of my terrible bedroom abilities. I WILL CREI NOWAo
As soon as you turn **** to do with sex around so that the pressure is upon women it's suddenly wrong.
Though I dunno why you mention that people last different amounts of time, when I myself highlighted this in my initial post and my IGNORANCE was obviously directed at those talking **** about the time people last. It was the double standards bit aimed at you.
And yeah, my entirely inconsequential ranting online is obviously an indicator of my terrible bedroom abilities. I WILL CREI NOWAo
Well to be fair I'm not a woman who is of the opinion that I'm the one that chooses when to have sex. if hes in the mood then I shall do my best to satisfying him. it's a balance and a compromise to work with what each other wants, I don't see what is so unreasonable in wanting to make sex a sensual loving thing rather than just a quick rutting session.
The fact that you're getting so hett up about it does actually suggest that I may have hit a nerve.. so really, my comment was fair.
Men and women can vary amongst one another. You find some women can orgasm and enjoy PiV sex very quickly and then the overstimulation can actually not be that nice (though thats normally rare to find), men can last for any range of time and each person will vary. However men can at least improve their time via the right exercises and correct mindset. Some men may never last more than 5minutes but that shouldn't be seen as a bad thing. Some men can last hours and some men can have PiV sex and not orgasm at all. Everyone is different.
I'm sure someone has linked a study or something but I'd assume the average man can last about 10minutes. But this should be used to compare yourself with. Sex isn't about ensuring you can last 4 hours and bang her brains out until she's blind. In fact it's common knowledge that a majority of women cannot actually orgasm from PiV action alone, so that there should be enough motivation to hone other sexual skills, regardless if you last 1 minute or 4 hours.
Sex should be about enjoying one another, enjoying the moment and coming to an orgasm, if you cannot last more than 5 minutes and she hasn't got off, find another way of doing it. Sometimes this forum can really irritate me by the view of sex, it's pretty childish. Sex isn't about competing and lasting as long as possible. It's about enjoying it, one another and then eventually orgasming. If you are doing anything else other than not enjoying yourself and helping your partner get off. Then frankly you're doing it wrong.
In answer to your question, I determine how long I last, and it can vary between 5minutes-hours.
I'm sure someone has linked a study or something but I'd assume the average man can last about 10minutes. But this should be used to compare yourself with. Sex isn't about ensuring you can last 4 hours and bang her brains out until she's blind. In fact it's common knowledge that a majority of women cannot actually orgasm from PiV action alone, so that there should be enough motivation to hone other sexual skills, regardless if you last 1 minute or 4 hours.
Sex should be about enjoying one another, enjoying the moment and coming to an orgasm, if you cannot last more than 5 minutes and she hasn't got off, find another way of doing it. Sometimes this forum can really irritate me by the view of sex, it's pretty childish. Sex isn't about competing and lasting as long as possible. It's about enjoying it, one another and then eventually orgasming. If you are doing anything else other than not enjoying yourself and helping your partner get off. Then frankly you're doing it wrong.
In answer to your question, I determine how long I last, and it can vary between 5minutes-hours.
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Original post by py0alb
ITT, as in every previous thread about the same topic,
virgins say "30 minutes"
non-virgins say "10 minutes"
If you can't get her off within 10 minutes, give up mate, you're just making her sore.
virgins say "30 minutes"
non-virgins say "10 minutes"
If you can't get her off within 10 minutes, give up mate, you're just making her sore.
That is not true lol. You can get a girl off multiple times over 10 minutes. Sex shouldnt be timed to 10minutes at all. I'm far from a virgin and i'd say my average is definitely above 10 minutes and I'm yet to have a complain, but w/e
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Tried to rep, PRSOM
Original post by Lemonzaz
porn isn't real, no-one lasts over half an hour in real life. its full of edits and cuts.
secondly, im suprised a lot of people are saying an average of 20/40 minutes! unless you're counting foreplay?
The actual deed on average, is 3 minutes, assuming you're sober, have no condom on and aren't on Viagra or similar. It seems as though people are just trying to sound impressive, boasting about how long they can last, but it just sounds ridiculous.
My partners length can vary between 2-5 minutes. He one of those go at it really fast people though, which is a little disappointing. If he slowed down a little then maybe he'd hit 7 minutes, but unless he's being sensual about it rather than just shoving it in and out, i'm not going to enjoy it anyway! If you add foreplay to that, then the whole act is averaging 20-30 minutes.
secondly, im suprised a lot of people are saying an average of 20/40 minutes! unless you're counting foreplay?
The actual deed on average, is 3 minutes, assuming you're sober, have no condom on and aren't on Viagra or similar. It seems as though people are just trying to sound impressive, boasting about how long they can last, but it just sounds ridiculous.
My partners length can vary between 2-5 minutes. He one of those go at it really fast people though, which is a little disappointing. If he slowed down a little then maybe he'd hit 7 minutes, but unless he's being sensual about it rather than just shoving it in and out, i'm not going to enjoy it anyway! If you add foreplay to that, then the whole act is averaging 20-30 minutes.
I assure you, people do and can. Maybe not going at it the whole time like pornstars, which is where porn doesn't fit into reality, but there are certainly people who can last that long.
I've learnt to pace myself so I slow down if I find myself 'reaching the station'. All I'm gonna say is, a girl loves gyration - apparently it feels better.
Original post by redferry
I would be a bit disappointed if someone regularly lasted less than 10-15 mins tbh, but it is always something guys can work on. People say the average time is under 10 minutes, but out of the 8 people I have slept with only one has lasted that short amount of time so I find the averages completely at odds with own personal experiences.
Yes, it's almost like there's no correlation between how long somebody lasts and how good their partner is
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