My father is cheating on my mother

Anonymous #1

my dad is cheating on my mum and I think I'm the only one who knows about it. What should I do?

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Reply 1

mmmmmmmmmmmmm

Tell her so the mf can go down

Reply 2

Mitzy09

do you have evidence? How do you know for sure?

Reply 3

Liquid Harvest

Been there, seen it. Keep out of his business, don't stick your nose in other people's affairs. Nothing good can come out of you interfering in his life.

Reply 4

louieee

Original post by Liquid Harvest

Been there, seen it. Keep out of his business, don't stick your nose in other people's affairs. Nothing good can come out of you interfering in his life.

It's his Dad, this is part of OP's life and OP's Mother's life too.

Reply 5

louieee

Make him buy you things, exploit the hell out of the situation, and then tell your mother after he's bought you a car.

Reply 6

Infraspecies

Tell him to tell her, and then tell her anyway.

Are you certain?

confront him about it, tell him that you know and that if he doesn't stop you'll tell your mum

Reply 9

PrincessAnna

what a dick, no offence. Tell your mum

Reply 10

EmilinaBabe

you love your mother, he shouldnt be hurting you, or your mother. she is the mother of his child. he owes her at least the respect to tell her that he is leaving her from someone else.

Reply 11

Error404OLE

Are you 100% certain op or are you talking sh1t?

Reply 12

SotonianOne

Blackmail him. It's a brilliant opportunity to get new presents.

I'd get a car.

**** me I'm selfish. I like it.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by louieee

It's his Dad, this is part of OP's life and OP's Mother's life too.

I'm a girl.

Original post by Liquid Harvest

Been there, seen it. Keep out of his business, don't stick your nose in other people's affairs. Nothing good can come out of you interfering in his life.

Are you sure? I feel stupid that he feels he can get away with it in front of me but I can't even think of the words to mention it to my mum haha.

Original post by Error404OLE

Are you 100% certain op or are you talking sh1t?

It's really annoying how people think every thread in the relationships section is a troll one. No, I'm being serious.

Original post by EmilinaBabe

you love your mother, he shouldnt be hurting you, or your mother. she is the mother of his child. he owes her at least the respect to tell her that he is leaving her from someone else.

What do you think I should do then?

Original post by Smug Life

confront him about it, tell him that you know and that if he doesn't stop you'll tell your mum

But if I do that he will act like he's stopped, but he might carry on behind mine and my mother's backs..

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by HuggleyDuck

Are you certain?

Yes I'm certain

I recall my mum kicking him out a few years ago for finding out he was speaking to another woman

A few years later she caught him out when he kept on declining the incoming call and she answered herself and confronted the woman

This time...well it's only me who knows

Reply 15

Asolare

If you actualyl have evidence/proof then yes tell your mother. It is YOUR business as you are THEIR child.

You absolutely need to inform someone if they're being cheated on, it's not fair to let it go on no matter what any idiot in this thread says.

Reply 16

JayReg

Don't get involved. This is their relationship not yours. It's important to respect that despite being their child.
They have a right to keep their relationship with you parental. The more you get involved, the more it will affect that.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by SotonianOne

Blackmail him. It's a brilliant opportunity to get new presents.

I'd get a car.

**** me I'm selfish. I like it.

Blackmail how?

When I was 12/13(ish?) I caught on that he was up to something and I sent him an email saying I'd tell mum because I was too scared to speak to him. He then called me into the room and was like you shouldn't be looking around my things blah blah it's disrespectful but at the age of 18, it's no longer something I can ignore

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

Original post by Inexorably

I've recorded one of his phone calls lol

Original post by JayReg

Don't get involved. This is their relationship not yours. It's important to respect that despite being their child.

They have a right to keep their relationship with you parental. The more you get involved, the more it will affect that.