So a few of you will know the saga I speak of, with a manipulative, evil, using, two faced cow of a flatmate I live with..
We literally can't seem to go a whole week without arguing now..
Tuesday, I was out at work, and flat 'mate' decided to have a go at me over text because I didnt empty the cat litter tray (for her cats) and because I left a half full bag of recycling in the bin..I said sorry, I forgot the cat litter, and I didnt want to waste the recycling bag..rather than let it go, she proceeded to launch into a tirade of abuse about how useless and stupid I am, how can I forget something shes told me to do every week since I moved in (she refuses to do anything involving germs ie clean anything). I finally stood up for myself against her and said fine, if shes that bothered, she can do them next week.
More abuse from her, this time including fine dont do them again then, and im never to use the bins again, then calling me several words for female and male genetilia....
I told her this point to eff off, and does she even realise how much of a bully she is, and even her friends (or more correctly ex-friends) say she is and that I should stand up to her, and theres no need for such abuse because I forgot something shes more than capable of doing too..
Apparently I was the one kicking off at her for no reason, and if I want to live in a house smelling of cat do do then go live in one and she'll have her nice house back. Remember, she doesnt do any cleaning, she will literally leave dishes unwashed for weeks (I went on holiday for a week and when I came back, there was two weeks worth waiting for me!), she smokes, she was even complaining the other day her bed smells like sex where she's had so many people in it!!
Finally her phone rant ended with sort my attitude out or move out.
When I got home, she said I had to go back out as she didnt want to see my face. When I said why can't she go out or has she finally lost every friend she had, that escalated to she wants me out of her house so pack my stuff and go, and for some randomly wierd reason about how at least she's had sex and isn't my age and never having been with anyone?? basically to try and hurt me..she is an absolute psycho!
When I argued well its half mine as I pay over half the rent and bills, her response was no its not, shes the only one on the tennancy, and when I asked is she giving back the rest of the rent, apparently 'it doesnt work like that'...
So yeah, I really do want to get out of here now as she is really annoying/depressing me with her psycho ways, but I cannot afford anywhere on my own, I know noone looking to share except one, but neither of us can afford the prices around here, so the only option is looking to be moving back home with my elderly parents, which will basically mean my life is over (and only slightly less stressful!)
Anyway, Thursday I thought we were ok again, chatting and she wanted a take away kebab delivered, so talked me into getting some too. Friday, she was begging me to do things for her like find some forms for work she forgot, photo and send them, or wait for someone to fix a box to her car etc. It was my birthday friday, but I didnt even get a card or anything off her, just a happy birthday text..
Saturday, I find out yet again, up until thursday night, literally while she was beside me while we eat, she's been slagging me off to people, about how useless and an idiot I am, how she never wants to speak to me again..how SHE can't live with ME anymore but how I didnt go on tuesday when she told me too..Wow..just wow..how two faced can this little ***** be?!!
But the best bit of all, because she knows she can't afford the flat without me, and noone else will move in with her, she was saying to a friend she'll turn to prostitution (she already does most things for free, including favours for lifts home! Charging is just the next step), and/or she'll move home with her father as his wife, her step mum, has moved out. And from what I gather, he's either open to the idea or has already said yes, so I believe she is either strongly considering or will soon for sure be moving out at short notice, meaning I have to leave anyway! Again..wow!! Bare in mind, im not even supposed to know this!!
Trouble is, she demanded rent money 2 days ago for the next lot of bills etc which ive had to pay out..If I am forced to leave, what happens then?!
I think its time to finally listen to my other friends who say how toxic this girl is, and admit finally that while she may once have been a friend, she isnt anymore, nor has she been for a while now..
My work are having a night out next weekend..I wasnt going to go, but guess I should think about it as it may be my very last ever night out the way things are going, due to no evening transport where my parents live, and my current flatmate is the only person Ive got 'out' with for the last 2-3 years!
I hate life..