I've been dating a girl for about a year now, she is a beautiful nice girl with lots in common, we do a lot things together.
I have a few different group of friends, old childhood friends, work and uni friends. I have more female friends than I do male but most of my best friends are male that's I've known for years. She's fine with them and she has met them a few times on nights out.
I have another friend, a girl that I met at uni I known for about 3 years. We are best friends, there was never anything between us other than hanging out. She always had my back, a very reliable girl. We talked about men and women problems when I was at uni. We also lived together in halls so we saw a lot of each other in that time.
Now I'm living in my hometown and she's living in my uni town, so I don't see much of her anymore. I have met her since but it's always me going back up there as I have other friends to see as well but she said she would like come see me.
I told my girlfriend that she's coming down to see me. She's being very funny about it, doesn't want me to see her. She thinks I'm having sex with her which isn't the case what so ever but can't get through to her. She's also asked me to take down photos of me and her on Facebook, mainly of us drinking mucking about. I'm refusing because it's just friends hanging out and I'm not being out of order to my friend just because she's a girl. If it was a ex girlfriend then I would see the problem but think it's uncalled for.
My friend would also like to meet my girlfriend. I've told her why she can't because it might cause issues. I understand they're both being protective over me, friend doesn't want be treated badly by a girl, looks out for me that way. My girlfriend on the other hand looks after me when I'm drunk, sick and that, does things for me. So consider my girlfriend as friend too, if you get where I'm coming from. It's just very awkward for me.
I don't usually use forums like this but I would really appreciate it if could give me some advice. So both are happy and stop fighting over me because it's ruining a good relationship and friendship.