I hate my boyfriends body count

Hi, I’m a 18F and my boyfriend is 19M. We’ve been dating for about 7/8 months now and he is the sweetest guy ever. He’s attentive, loving, generous, and overall just an amazing guy. I can’t think of one thing about him that I don’t love.

I’m a pretty insecure person at the best of times - I don’t think I’m particularly beautiful or even very good looking. I tend to compare myself to people a lot, and I know that’s my own issue and no one else’s, but that’s just the way I am.

I have a body count of 4 and my boyfriends is over 10, although he won’t tell me exactly how many. He has told me the names of some of the girls and I know them, which just makes it so much more worse.

I see them around our town all the time and they’re so gorgeous, everything I wish I was and sometimes I wonder why my boyfriend chose ME out of all these girls he literally could’ve had.

I know I’m not exactly the Virgin Mary either but all of the people I’ve slept with have been either people I’ve dated or talked to, whereas my boyfriend has engaged in a lot of casual sex/hookups/one night stands. He’s had one other relationship before me.

Idk, I know a lot of this is my own issue, and my own insecurities, but I just hate knowing who these people are, seeing them around my town, especially when I’m with my boyfriend and they see us and I know they know what he looks like naked!!! I just hate it!!

Is there any way I can move past this? I love my boyfriend to bits and I wouldn’t wanna date anyone other than him, I just hate how insecure I get.

But according to your boyfriend, you're better than all the girls he's been with before. (Otherwise he'd be with one of them...)

Hi, I’m a 18F and my boyfriend is 19M. We’ve been dating for about 7/8 months now and he is the sweetest guy ever. He’s attentive, loving, generous, and overall just an amazing guy. I can’t think of one thing about him that I don’t love.

I’m a pretty insecure person at the best of times - I don’t think I’m particularly beautiful or even very good looking. I tend to compare myself to people a lot, and I know that’s my own issue and no one else’s, but that’s just the way I am.

I have a body count of 4 and my boyfriends is over 10, although he won’t tell me exactly how many. He has told me the names of some of the girls and I know them, which just makes it so much more worse.

I see them around our town all the time and they’re so gorgeous, everything I wish I was and sometimes I wonder why my boyfriend chose ME out of all these girls he literally could’ve had.

I know I’m not exactly the Virgin Mary either but all of the people I’ve slept with have been either people I’ve dated or talked to, whereas my boyfriend has engaged in a lot of casual sex/hookups/one night stands. He’s had one other relationship before me.

Idk, I know a lot of this is my own issue, and my own insecurities, but I just hate knowing who these people are, seeing them around my town, especially when I’m with my boyfriend and they see us and I know they know what he looks like naked!!! I just hate it!!

Is there any way I can move past this? I love my boyfriend to bits and I wouldn’t wanna date anyone other than him, I just hate how insecure I get.

In general, having a high body count regardless of gender is a red flag...it just means that when the time comes, it is likely that person may break up or cheat on you. I'm not suggesting that you break up with him, but this is just something to consider. Your insecurities, on the other hand, are very relatable, and all I can say is to try your best to not focus on those girls and focus on yourself. Work out, choose your friends wisely, and if you go to school, achieve those high grades. When you do all of this, you may not realise it, but over time you will become prettier and wiser, and all of your insecurities will not matter.

In general, having a high body count regardless of gender is a red flag...it just means that when the time comes, it is likely that person may break up or cheat on you. I'm not suggesting that you break up with him, but this is just something to consider. Your insecurities, on the other hand, are very relatable, and all I can say is to try your best to not focus on those girls and focus on yourself. Work out, choose your friends wisely, and if you go to school, achieve those high grades. When you do all of this, you may not realise it, but over time you will become prettier and wiser, and all of your insecurities will not matter.

In general, having a high body count regardless of gender is a red flag...it just means that when the time comes, it is likely that person may break up or cheat on you.