How do I come out as Bi to my friends/family?

I am also bisexual and have just decided not to tell anyone. If you end up with a guy then come out but if you don't leave it. Just save yourself the hassle. i came out to 4 friends and it was hell. there is no point of putting yourself through that. i ended up just telling them that i was joking and they believed so i just keep it to myself and live my life.

Yeah I decided not to tell anyone. For me personally I feel like being bi won’t completely change my life since I still prefer woman more, as you seem to as well? If people ask me I say I’m open minded and if it felt right I’d go for it.

For me, being bi just means I can have fun with guys as well and have deeper emotional connections…. No one really has to know. Just stop trying to cover it up and they’ll catch on

Maybe I wouldn't need to come out to my family, unless I go out with a guy. But I feel like I need to tell atleast someone. It feels like I have a huge weight on my shoulders. How did you guys know you was 'bi'. Like when did you say, right, I'm Bisexual?

Hey

I'm a closeted guy, I've always dated girls & I am currently in a 8 month relationship with one. But ever since I was 13, I have always noticed guys as well. I am trying to come to grips with who I am. My parents, especially my dad do not understand sexuality & the whole LGBTQ+ stuff. I feel like I would be letting down my family & I am worried about how my friends will react. I feel like I should come out this year, and I feel like I'm just holding my breathe.

Is there anyone who has been or is going through the same thing as me?

thanks

If you feel that way and you're worried about your parents reacting badly, you don't necessarily have to say it until anything happens. Whilst you're dating a girl, it doesn't really matter that you like boys, so it's not something you should feel obliged to share.
If you feel you want to, of course, let them know, but at the same time, if you think it may cause issues (having a parent who doesn't share open values) then there is no pressing matter about it.

I don't want to come across as though I know your situation personally or discourage you from doing anything, but it doesn't sound too pressing, and it may be quite random to say 8 months into a relationship with a girl. Unless you feel the need to get it off your chest, you could wait for better timing if you're concerned.

A good way to bring it up may be to discuss sexual fluidity in general, and have a discussion about it. It would be an easy way to slip in the fact that you think you're attracted to boys too.

Given that you're 13, and 8 months into a relationship with a girl, I expect the timing isn't perfect, but it's really up to you.

Good luck!

When I came out as bi, I said it very quickly and made it very clear what I was saying.

Try telling close friends first, because it will allow you to get 'an idea' of what it'll be like. Is there anyone else that is openly LGBT at your school? There are a few bi girls at my school that are in my year, who I told first. I found them to be very helpful. I also found that girls are significantly more accepting than guys are, so if you are friends with girls, I would personally tell them first.

If I was you, I wouldn't tell your parents to be honest. They don't seem very accepting to LGBT sexualities.

Good Luck!

Hey

I'm a closeted guy, I've always dated girls & I am currently in a 8 month relationship with one. But ever since I was 13, I have always noticed guys as well. I am trying to come to grips with who I am. My parents, especially my dad do not understand sexuality & the whole LGBTQ+ stuff. I feel like I would be letting down my family & I am worried about how my friends will react. I feel like I should come out this year, and I feel like I'm just holding my breathe.

Is there anyone who has been or is going through the same thing as me?

thanks