Question for Muslim Women

'oright sister, drop me a message innit fam. SISTER GET YOUR HIJAB ON'.

It's just basically following a faith without doing any ounce of personal research into the truth of it.


I urge you that researching any arguments against Islam will not only disassociate you from the religion, but might even lead you to denounce it as a lot of ex muslim women have done.

. based on tht hadith sex slavery is not allowed unless u marry .

OK then, I won't research it, I'm happy as it's

well, anyone has the right to his/her approach to religion

however, you should research Islam : not only for religious reasons. It's also a huge part of humanity's culture and history (just like Christianity, Buddhism etc etc)

also, IMHO it makes little sense to follow all the outward aspects of the religion if someone does not believe they actually have some deeper signification

however, to each his/her own

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You are right actually, I should, but I think as Superstar said, I'm scared to know more bad things about religion, I don't want to lose my basic "faith"..

well, that may be OK, at least as a transitional phase...

and, in any case, few things in life are black or white : and, most of all in religious issues, where people have been disagreeing, squabbling and fighting for millennia without any result, except suffering and destruction

so, one might simply sidestep the entire shebang of organised religion, and go for a direct relationship with the meaning of life, how to act, how to treat others

and, if someone really wants to, he can call that "a relationship with God"

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and then your wife becomes your sex slave

obliged to supply sex on demand, or the angels will curse her until the morning

and if she insists in being disobedient - you can always have recourse to the special wife-beating toothbrush (miswak)

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No she is not forced to have sex i can show u multiple hadiths.

Only consensual .

U have your wife and u have your slaves your slave becomes your wife.
Allah said:وَمَا أَدْرَاكَ مَا الْعَقَبَةُ فَكُّ رَقَبَةٍWhat will make you know what is the difficult path to Paradise? It is the freeing of a slave.Surah Al-Balad 90:12-13The Prophet particularly encouraged Muslims to free their female slaves and to marry them.Abu Burda reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:وَرَجُلٌ كَانَتْ عِنْدَهُ أَمَةٌ فَأَدَّبَهَا فَأَحْسَنَ تَأْدِيبَهَا وَعَلَّمَهَا فَأَحْسَنَ تَعْلِيمَهَا ثُمَّ أَعْتَقَهَا فَتَزَوَّجَهَا فَلَهُ أَجْرَانِThere is a double reward for a man who owns a servant girl and he mentors her, teaches her beautiful manners, educates her in the best way, and then he emancipates her and marries her.Source: Sahih Bukhari 97, Grade: Sahih

Since Islam strictly limited slavery and strongly encouraged freedom, it became clear to Muslim scholars over time that the intention of such legislation was to abolish slavery altogether and, consequently, the practice of concubinage. Today, the legal consensus among Muslim countries makes it unlawful to own slaves and by extension forbids concubinage.

Allah has forbidden prostitution or selling slave women for sexual service.Allah said:وَلَا تُكْرِهُوا فَتَيَاتِكُمْ عَلَى الْبِغَاءِ إِنْ أَرَدْنَ تَحَصُّنًا لِّتَبْتَغُوا عَرَضَ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَاDo not compel your slave girls to prostitution if they desire chastity, seeking thereby the interests of worldly life.

Umar condemned a man to death for having unlawful intercourse with a female captive he had acquired during war.

You are right actually, I should, but I think as Superstar said, I'm scared to know more bad things about religion, I don't want to lose my basic "faith".

I don't actually follow any backward teachings, and they have no significance in my daily life. I pick and chose and bend the religion around me whenever I need it, but in general, in public I rarely say I'm muslim, I say I believe in Allah/God, but I'm not practising.

No she is not forced to have sex

Umar condemned a man to death for having unlawful intercourse with a female captive he had acquired during war.

*choose

WOW.


Errm, People who know me know that, if another user said that to me in an argument, they would be verbally dismantled, but your peaceful easy going nature prevents me from doing so.


You're just out to enjoy life, leaving the arguments to other people like me. I like that.

but then, she will have those pesky no-good angels annoying her and cursing her like there was no tomorrow

she will probably be unable to get a moment's sleep for the rest of the night - and then, even in her grave, when she might legitimately aspire to some rest, two of those angelical broad-shouldered bullies (Munkar and Nakir) will remind her that, on 22nd September 2025, at 2.35 a.m., she refused intercourse with her husband - and this will cost her a couple eons in the blazing fire...



Shocked.

but then, she will have those pesky no-good angels annoying her and cursing her like there was no tomorrow



You go on a legitimate jihad fi sabillillah (in the way of allah), capture a scrumptious kuffarette, dispatch her menfolk, have a halal intercourse with your right-hand possession (and no kinky shenanigans, either) and there comes Umar, declares this unlawful and sentences you to death ? I mean, where is all this going to lead us?

Shocked.

In this instance, only consensual sex between two people living together (the man and the concubine) WAS*** halal back in 600AD when slavery was permissible (and that was under many rules which essentially meant they had to be treated like a free person - they have to be treated like an equal, be fed, clothed as you are, not beaten, not raped, you can't joke that you will free them because if you do that will free them, etc.). It is now HARAM to have slaves, therefore it is HARAM to have sex with slaves.