A girl in my flat who I fancy

Missed the boat m8, should've had all your first year to do it

I know. Its just I was too scared to ask her. I never knew the right time to ask her and I didnt know if she would like me to. Know Im guttted that I didnt ask her out.

It's OK, you'll probably be more attracted to your new flatmate. The alternative is to go out and attend as many social events as possible.

I don't think it's too late. In fact, I think you've been really wise to hold out. Being in a relationship with a flat mate can cause all kinds of drama and would be really awkward if it didn't work out.

Let her know how you feel. If I were you I'd drop her a text and say something along the lines of 'Hey, would you be interested in going for a date some time? Truth is, I really like you and have done for some time but I didn't want to cause any rifts or awkwardness whilst we were living together if you didn't feel the same way. I thought, seeing as we're coming to the end of the year and we won't be living with each other next year that now would be the best time to tell you how I feel.'

Maybe spice it up a bit, aha. Or if you're feeling brave, tell her face to face!

Do you have any indication to suggest that she might like you too? Has she ever been flirty? Etc.

Shes gonna finish uni in 2 days as thats when she finish her exams and I finish next Friday. And I dont know if she will be gone straight after. Should i still send the message?

Don't send a message, that is a crap strategy. Just ask her out..

try not to make it seem like a date
‘Hey do you wanna catch a movie later’
‘Hey there’s this new curry place do you wanna go there with me'

I disagree. Seeing as you're already friends, if you ask her just to go see a movie or go grab something to eat she might interpret that as an invitation to a friendly outing... as mates. She needs to know hat your intentions are not to be mates, but hopefully more. So, let her know you want to go on a date or at least let her know how you feel so she is aware of your intentions.

Ask her if she fancies going for a fish supper?

Absolutely, you've got nothing to lose.

I'd be interested to see how she replies, let us know!!

Missed the boat m8, should've had all your first year to do it

Hi guys

I got rejected.