How to meet people after uni

I graduate next week, and, as I see it, my life is over. Unless I end up working for a massive company, chances are I'll end up in a job with just a couple of people my age. I'm concerned that I'm never going to make new friends now or have a relationship... If I failed to find someone willing to get into a relationship with me when I was surrounded by people my own age, what are the chances of finding that when I'll be surrounded mostly by people over double my age?
Does life really end at 22? Am I resigned to spending my weekends by myself watching Britain's got talent with 87 cats? Is it possible to have a wide social circle and thriving social life after uni? Especially considering that existing friends will now be all over the place? To make matters worse I'm quite shy, certainly not the type of person to strike up a conversation with a stranger in the street or the gym. Is it possible to have the best time of my life now, or should I go to the cats home and start my collection?



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Joining a gym is a good start

Join this website:
http://www.meetup.com

Worked for me during that year between undergrad and postgrad.

This looks great!

I've been to several events on that site and most of the people who turn up are in their 40's, it is consistently like that and it will be rare for her to come across another 22 year old,

still worth going though if you've got no other avenues ..but bare in mind the main crowd are around their 40's and people in their early 20's are rare.


most of the suggestions here are not good. this one [although not ideal due to her age] probably has the best chance of leading to something provided she's willing to put in the hours attending events looking for someone her age.