Also, I forgot to actually answer your thread, lol this is super entertaining to read. I honestly don't see why people say you're a gold digger. You're obviously smart if you're applying to unis and you never said you want to marry the guy just for his money. I honestly understand where you're coming from. When I was 18 and just out of high school, that 25 year old engineer guy wanted to date me and he was basically saying straight that he wanted to marry me one day, and okay he wasn't a millionaire lol but he earned 60k+ a year, which is probably way more than I'll ever earn unless I become a famous novelist/documentary maker, but that guy was just too arrogant, because in my town most people don't earn that much, and he was boasting about how he had a masters and a job that allowed him to travel and earn lots of money etc...
Also while I moved to Paris first year of uni, I met a rich guy, the sailing team type, and he invited me to super rich people parties and stuff, but what put me off was that he was overly confident because he was attractive, his family had money and he was ethnically ambiguous, which made him think he was cooler than he actually was. Other than that he was nice, not arrogant like everyone else says on this thread, but everything was handed to him so easily that we couldn't have been good together, because while to this day I still depend on my mom to pay for my stuff, I've had summer jobs so I know hard work. And also he was 2 years younger than me lmao so no thanks. Oh, and prepare yourself to be bullied by the rich girls in his life. They'll see you as an intruder stealing what they think they're entitled to. Especially if the guy is really attractive.