I miss my ex like crazy and it's been five months...

It will take time to move on, 5 months is nothing especially when you've spent 2 years of your life with her. Take it slowly, a day at a time. If it's meant to be, it'll be. Nothing more you can do.

I guess so, I feel as if I am holding her back as she tells me that she cannot talk to me anymore while she moves on. sad i know but it hurts me, i've lost my best friend

Hmm, that may be a good sign as she hasn't moved on yet. You may have a chance to change her mind but don't beg her or keep speaking to her etc. Just give her space, it will be beneficial for you both in the future.

Thank you so much, would you consider getting back with an ex? I'm the one who did the dumping but I feel so bad I broke her heart and now suddenly I want her back.

It depends on the reasons we broke up, I did have a potential reconciliation but I'm glad it didn't happen in the end. Like you, he's (ex boyfriend) struggling to move on and he's taken it a step further with being in a rebound relationship. Don't do that though!

What I suggest is tell her how you feel and everything, ask for her response. That way you'll know where you stand and you'll be able to move on. If she doesn't give you a second chance, then maybe it's not worth it?

I told her how I felt, accidentally I told her that I was bored and that I missed her and wanted a girlfriend and she got mad and I see why. I have dated two girls since my ex but it's been casual and although I've wanted more than a casual thing, I always pine for my ex because she meant the world to me and I see what a big mistake I have made by dumping her. Maybe all she needed was time to figure herself out before we split but all I know is that I have lost someone who changed my life for the better.

That's good. Just give her space for now and don't speak to her at all.

I know who you are

maybe you are right, there is someone out there for me but i always find myself stalking her, i found her instagram and i messaged her and she blocked me.

Don't look at her stuff on social media!

I know who you are

So do I

Can you please message me as I would not like to be identified on here thanks

Print out loads of pictures of her and burn them in your back garden

i would feel very guilty, she doesn't deserve that

It might be therapeutic for you, give it a try