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red_roadkill

Absolutely. I'm not a grandad, and if you knew me, you'd be well aware of that fact. I am very fun-loving and very sociable and like to have fun. I live by the philosophy of "you're only young once". So don't try to lecture me on being too mature for my own age.

When I submitted my post about maturity, all I meant was that people posting seemed to lack maturity when discussing anal sex - like someone posted "you get shat all over your penis" or something. That's what I meant by immaturity and other comments people made. There needs to be a certain degree of maturity when it comes to sex, surely you recognise that.

That depends. Certainly, sex can be a deeply meaningful experience between two people. I won't deny that. On the other hand you're forgetting one thing. Sex can be very, very funny.

The fact is, we have odd-shaped bodies that do odd things. If you go through your entire life and never once think that sex can be seen as a deeply comic act - pleasurable, intimate and meaningful, sure - by its very nature, then you'll miss out on a world of fun - which you claimed to love twice in the same sentence.

Whilst the comment in question may have been immature, how can someone who has never participated in anal sex know what to expect unless they ask simple questions.

Reply 61

SammyD

7

It is true you should not use vasoline or oil based substances as lube, but KY is waterbased, please edit that post. Misinformation like that is dangerous.

Reply 62

Né Stig

15

Anne Auraque

No, of course not! I wouldn't have anal sex, unless the river's red in which case I would take the dirt track instead! :eek:

This thread cracks me up. Its absolutely hysterical.

Go for it I say (with a guy you trust of course)
Just expect to be walking around like a zombie for the following week, and being extremely close to the pan.

Reply 63

Anne Auraque

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red_roadkill

Absolutely. I'm not a grandad, and if you knew me, you'd be well aware of that fact. I am very fun-loving and very sociable and like to have fun. I live by the philosophy of "you're only young once". So don't try to lecture me on being too mature for my own age.

When I submitted my post about maturity, all I meant was that people posting seemed to lack maturity when discussing anal sex - like someone posted "you get shat all over your penis" or something. That's what I meant by immaturity and other comments people made. There needs to be a certain degree of maturity when it comes to sex, surely you recognise that.

Frankly I think you should grow up and be less pejorative. I was merely pointing out a lighter side of the situation. If you don't wear a condom, then the aftermath is more complicated, and I was just highlighting that other side. Maybe you're just stressed, as most of us are at this time, but really I only meant the comment in good humour, so stop being so pernickety.

Reply 64

roff

2

Anal sex

To each their own, but use a special anal condom and you should be ok, and use KY or astro something

Reply 65

mousey

2

I know this is a bit of an odd cliche - but vaseline works ok too. xx

Reply 66

LPK

20

bricktops

Rule of thumb: your exit hole is not an entry hole, that is why it is called your exit hole. PLus chance you could rip the outside of the rectum.

hmm, anal cancer off anal sex? :confused:

Reply 67

Helenia

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mousey

I know this is a bit of an odd cliche - but vaseline works ok too. xx

Noooooooo. It breaks down condoms, which is not a good idea.

Reply 68

Lady Venom

14

if you have anal sex too muc the sphincter which holds your feaces in loses its elasticity and therefore it's difficult to wait to go (you literally will just have to go)...I know a lot of gay men have this problme if they do anal too much and over a long period.

Reply 69

peee

To clear things up....

DO use waterbased lubricants...ie KY
DONT use petrolium base lubricants.

Reply 70

James T

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InaSpin

if you have anal sex too muc the sphincter which holds your feaces in loses its elasticity and therefore it's difficult to wait to go (you literally will just have to go)...I know a lot of gay men have this problme if they do anal too much and over a long period.

Yeh i agree many pornstars have had this problem. Apparently it weakens sometinhg in your arse and it just comes out.......NOT NICE also i find it really hard to go into a chemist and ask for condoms. I normally go in a pub toilet.

HOW DO YOU ALL GET YOUR CONDOMS?

Reply 71

peee

You can buy them on the net quite cheap.

they come in really discreet packaging.

just make sure you buy the top quality well known ones and not rubbish ones

Reply 72

roff

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InaSpin

if you have anal sex too muc the sphincter which holds your feaces in loses its elasticity and therefore it's difficult to wait to go (you literally will just have to go)...I know a lot of gay men have this problme if they do anal too much and over a long period.

see, anything that deviates from normal rules results in problems. i.e. if women only had 'frontal sex' as long as they use a condom there is no problem, but if they took it up the backside then they get these sphincter problems.

not preaching but can someone see my point?

Reply 73

James T

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ramroff

see, anything that deviates from normal rules results in problems. i.e. if women only had 'frontal sex' as long as they use a condom there is no problem, but if they took it up the backside then they get these sphincter problems.

not preaching but can someone see my point?

lmao probably due to god and his wonderful ways...

Reply 74

roff

2

James T

Yeh i agree many pornstars have had this problem. Apparently it weakens sometinhg in your arse and it just comes out.......NOT NICE also i find it really hard to go into a chemist and ask for condoms. I normally go in a pub toilet.

HOW DO YOU ALL GET YOUR CONDOMS?

the girl sorts it out

Reply 75

bohogirlie

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James T

Yeh i agree many pornstars have had this problem. Apparently it weakens sometinhg in your arse and it just comes out.......NOT NICE also i find it really hard to go into a chemist and ask for condoms. I normally go in a pub toilet.

HOW DO YOU ALL GET YOUR CONDOMS?

If you're embarrassed about buying condoms, i don't think you're ready to have sex tbh.

Reply 76

ciara

OP

13

James T

HOW DO YOU ALL GET YOUR CONDOMS?

I go to Superdrug/Boots and buy them. It's not that difficult, everyone does it the cashiers won't even look twice! Might seem embarrassing at first, but it's a little less embarrassing than buying a pregnancy test isn't it?

Cxx

Reply 77

roff

2

lessthanthree

then you shouldn't be having sex.

That's bloody ignorant. Everyone should carry condoms.

Not exactly, I don't sleep with any girl or do anything if she doesn't have a condom so I a practice safe procedures

Reply 78

jd27

I go to my chemists. I don't get the embarrassment factor - although one of my friends was v embarrassed. He wouldn't go to the confidential school nurse to find out if she would give any (she wouldn't - i went for him). In the end I had to buy them for him.

He usually orders them online but had been locked out of his house and was staying the weekend with his gf.

To be honest some people are still embarrassed if people know they are having sex. Doesn't mean they shouldn't have sex - just that they're private.
I wouldn't trust pub toilet condom machines though..

Reply 79

PublicSchoolAnn

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ciara

Any potential risks?

Death for your sins.

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