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Feel that I'm way out of my boyfriend's league
I really don't know where to begin with this.
We've been together for about 3 months (who's counting?) and in all that time, I've just seen him as an embarrassment. People would never guess he's my boyfriend when they see us walking together in the High Street because (I've been told) they wouldn't expect a girl like me to look at a guy like that.
I never let him hold my hand, and we only kiss in private. The sex is really good, and he does buy me loads of presents etc. I just can't help thinking when we're shopping for knickers for me in La Senza though or whatever, that the girls working there are thinking 'what the heck are you doing with him?' Last time we were there I asked him to go into M&S to look at cutlery because I was so embarrassed of what people thought.
On the plus side, he does have a car, and he takes me loads of places and never asks for a penny in petrol, whereas my old boyfriend would keep a list of the number of miles he'd driven me and bill me at the end of the month (
- I soon got rid).
I suppose we talk a lot, and he understands my needs etc, but I just can't stop thinking that I'm way out of his league.
What would you do in my situation?
We've been together for about 3 months (who's counting?) and in all that time, I've just seen him as an embarrassment. People would never guess he's my boyfriend when they see us walking together in the High Street because (I've been told) they wouldn't expect a girl like me to look at a guy like that.
I never let him hold my hand, and we only kiss in private. The sex is really good, and he does buy me loads of presents etc. I just can't help thinking when we're shopping for knickers for me in La Senza though or whatever, that the girls working there are thinking 'what the heck are you doing with him?' Last time we were there I asked him to go into M&S to look at cutlery because I was so embarrassed of what people thought.
On the plus side, he does have a car, and he takes me loads of places and never asks for a penny in petrol, whereas my old boyfriend would keep a list of the number of miles he'd driven me and bill me at the end of the month (
- I soon got rid).I suppose we talk a lot, and he understands my needs etc, but I just can't stop thinking that I'm way out of his league.
What would you do in my situation?
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I call troll.
Leave the guy, for his sake rather than your own.
Why the heck do people keep calling me a troll for stating my situation?
Don't feel so sad, you're the best he's ever had.
Don't feel so wrong, let me be your King Kong.
I'll save you from misery, please troll come be with me.
uppy:
Don't feel so wrong, let me be your King Kong.
I'll save you from misery, please troll come be with me.
uppy:Your boyfirend must be the very definition of minger.
Sigh. These trolls need to fix up. That "New Member" status is always a tell tale sign. Altho I rate you on trying to make ur trolling authentic by having an avatar and profile picture
wtf? u've got a great bf and ur worried about what others might be saying???????
Well looking at your profile pic, you're not that hot yourself so you must be dating sasquatch or something.
T-Star*
The thing is, you're not even hot and I'd be embarassed to be seen with you shopping for size 18 lingerie in La Senza.
Darling they only go up to size 16 in La Senza, so that would render any potential girlfriend of yours unable to shop there.
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