I can orgasm okish by myself (20-30 mins) but my boyfriend can't do it. We haven't had sex yet, so it's mainly fingering/oral, but however hard I try, I just can't orgasm, and it's starting to really get to both of us. Any help at all? If it helps, he is my first proper boyfriend, and we are quite inexperienced (both virgins), so is is him or me? I've tried helping him with what I like, and I can get really close, but I can't go over the edge for some reason. Any help?