My friend is ignoring me.

Go to the party and sort it out with her there. I hate the ignoring method when someone's annoyed.

No one else? I'm so ******* pissed off. I hate being ignored. But if she wants to behave like that, two people can play that game

I would but most of the people who are going are her friends. The guy only knows me through her. Only one other person going I'm really going friends with.

kinda seems like you only want her to stop ignoring you for your own selfish reasons that you don't wanna be at this party alone

but meh, maybe she's not ignoring you deliberately. if she doesn't speak unless spoken to these days, she might be going through some rough times?

She's talking to everyone else but me. I'm not too fussed about going really. I'm quite tired. She's the one who has isolated herself from a lot of her friends seems like I'm the next one to go, and I am the only one who really cared.

So you're criticising her with regards to not going out when she doesn't know people and you're doing exactly the same thing yourself? Bit hypocritical, no?

Anyhoo, try meeting up where she can't so easily avoid you and confront her. She might resent the fact that you are trying to change her so I'd apologise for that and say that you think she should meet new people.

Howzat?

hmm, quite strange. i dunno, i've done that before and i know that at the time i just felt let down by all my so called friends and the fact that they were too proud or whatever to get in contact with me just proved to me more how little they cared

probs different situation but may help.. just talk to her one last time, see how it goes

I thought this :/

Just go TO her and speak to her face.

Have you actually stopped thinking about doing what YOU want and do what SHE wants. It sounds like She's upset or something's happened to make her feel so reclusive. Maybe stop and ask her if She's ok. You know... Be a good friend. Sometimes a little give rather than take take take goes a long way. Organise a girly night where you and her watch a film or a boxset, gossip and munch a pizza. If She's a home girl She's not going to take kindly to you wheeling her out all the time.

She's fine, lol. There's nothing wrong with her really. She's always been quite quiet. I guess people just got fed up with that. People just take advantage of you if you're dead quiet, and walkover you that's what I was trying to explain to her. Like she's now nearly 19 and until recently had never had a job and just gave up because "noone wanted her" She said to me the other day we don't have anything in common anymore, I guess she's right. I wish people were more open like me though instead of just ignoring your problems and wishing them away!

Please don't mock people who've never had a job. I'd literally kill for a job right now. Well maybe She's giving you the cold shoulder because she just doesn't want to be friends? If you have no common interests, you want to go out she doesn't, i've just realised thats the problem with me and my two best friends, my only friends to be honest. Two weeks ago i suggested going alton towers today. Guess what? They planned to go there without me, they went today, and I only found out because of her status bragging about how much she loves her besties. The point of that little anecdote was that its not as if you're not inviting her to stuff. If she doesn't want to go thats her perogative, i'm guessing you won't be able to change it, She's an adult now, a quiet librarian type is just who she is.