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ms2006

I'm sure you're all going to think I'm a sad git, but here goes...

I'm 18 and have never had sex before, but would like to. I've been looking for an escort to have sex with and have found one who looks nice and sounds nice on the phone. The thing is, as much as I really want to experience my first time with someone experienced, I'm now having second thoughts.

Any advise please?

Reply 1

Exoskeletal

1

don't do it.

wait for a nice girl.

you needn't pay.

Reply 2

pumpkin7

13

Exoskeletal

don't do it.

wait for a nice girl.

you needn't pay.

^^^

Reply 3

michellehall

2

dont do it. your first time is very memorable and you should wait until you find somebody you like and who likes you. with an escort yeah you get sex but you dont get any of the emotion that should be attached to it. im not saying wait til you get married but just until you find someone who it feels right with

Reply 4

MNBStyle

9

Exoskeletal

don't do it.

wait for a nice girl.

you needn't pay.

Agreed,
if you just dive in there with any girl you will only regret it in future

Reply 5

Affectation

1

They cost a bomb anyway.
I know because I used to be one.

Psych. :smile:

Reply 6

P for Photographer

1

Dun risk your life...

Reply 7

dogtanian

16

Puiyin

Dun risk your life...

Eh? While I agree that this option probably isn't the best (though I'm not going to condemn it outright like some others...), how is it a risk to his life?

Reply 8

pumpkin7

13

thats true.. she could have any amount of weird diseases.. if you think about all the guys she will have probably been with.. some of them could be so bad, they could disintegrate the condom :O

Reply 9

Affectation

1

Man that would have to be one hybrid monster of a VD :biggrin:

Reply 10

dogtanian

16

I don't think he's going to sleep with any crack-addled, disease-ridden whore...

Not every prostitute is filthy and diseased. Heck, some of them enjoy it and take pride in their work! They're the ones that use condoms and go for regular testing... If she's from an escort agency, as the original post would suggest, she's probably clean. Of course there's still a risk, but there's as much risk with sleeping with randoms who don't happen pay their bills by sleeping with businessmen...

No, I'd be most concerned about the emotional and mental side of it...

Reply 11

L i b

19

If she's an escort rather than some street-walking hoor then she'll probably be fairly clean.

Anyway, have a bit of restraint. I know that's quite hard in the teenage years, but it's hardly a desperate requirement to get laid immediately; and it'll be more pleasant with someone you care about.

Compromise: get her to suck you off...

Reply 12

Profesh

20

ms2006

I'm sure you're all going to think I'm a sad git, but here goes...

I'm 18 and have never had sex before, but would like to. I've been looking for an escort to have sex with and have found one who looks nice and sounds nice on the phone. The thing is, as much as I really want to experience my first time with someone experienced, I'm now having second thoughts.

Any advise please?

One word: don't. I'm still sore from the last time; not to mention that my fees have, understandably, skyrocketed in deference to this.

Reply 13

pumpkin7

13

yeah, thats true.. don't waste this important experience on someone who you will probably never see again in your life.. wait until it feels right. you shouldn't feel pressured by the fact that other people are 'doing it' .. there are plenty of people out there who are just waiting for the right partner, and hats off to them.
seriously, WAIT. this is one of lifes most wonderful experiences.. save it until you are with someone you really care about, and who cares about you just as much.

Hoor!

I would'nt myself, and I dont think you should.

Reply 16

Dekota

ms2006

I'm sure you're all going to think I'm a sad git, but here goes...

I'm 18 and have never had sex before, but would like to. I've been looking for an escort to have sex with and have found one who looks nice and sounds nice on the phone. The thing is, as much as I really want to experience my first time with someone experienced, I'm now having second thoughts.

Any advise please?

She is just after the money.

After that she leaves, you feel ten times worser than before.

Long-term planning.
Practical thinking.

Reply 17

random123

2

People are saying that he shouldn;t because of the emotional crap, but the thing is (and I'm not necessarily saying he should here), it wouldn't really be his first proper time, it would just be like a practice. He would still have the emotional experience of doing it for the first time with someone he cares about, that's what counts really.

I'd still say its bad though due to the possibility of addiction and std's, even if she isn't a 'hoor', lol.

Reply 18

blissy

15

If you're having second thoughts, don't do it (as with all sex!)
There will come a time when you find a girl you really like, who really likes you and you'll have absolutely no reservations about what you are going to do. Wait for that, don't do it just to get it over and done with.
You can't reclaim the very first time (yes there are always "first" times with new partners) and it's best to minimise the potential for regret as much as possible because the majority of people regret or go on to regret their first time.

Reply 19

cattericksmiler

9

Joe_87

People are saying that he shouldn;t because of the emotional crap, but the thing is (and I'm not necessarily saying he should here), it wouldn't really be his first proper time, it would just be like a practice. He would still have the emotional experience of doing it for the first time with someone he cares about, that's what counts really.

I'd still say its bad though due to the possibility of addiction and std's, even if she isn't a 'hoor', lol.

a practice... are you being serious??? There is no need to practice these things, sometimes your inexperience can make it even better for you and your partner!!! :wink:

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