is it bad to be seen as "the sweet and innocent girl" ? - a turn off??

so you expect her to form her self image around YOUR type

get out!

It's perfectly fine. Just as long as you aren't living under a rock you'll get found.

Just please don't feel you need to be some knid of slut or whatever it is your friends are pushing you into.

As a guy, I can safely say I really like sweet 'innocent' girls because they are genuine and god forbid girlfriend material.

Indeed, how silly of me, my bad.

OP, please, become a massive raging slut if your heart so desires it. Give up being who you are, yourself, and become another vapid false town bicycle.


Oh you'll get laid. It probably wont make you happy having to be something your not and you won't find satisfying relationships from being a hump-&-dump but you know, listen to Owp here.

Thank you guys for replying my thread but why don't guys approach me then? I don't come off as desperate but if a guy looks me way i tend to look away because it forms an uncomfortable feeling or does it have to do with the fact that i'm a different race?

what is your race? and why does it matter?

please. get over it.

now you want her to become a bicycle. stop being so extreme. not eveyone is either your type or a town bicycle.

by the way it's "you're not", not "your".

check yourself before you wreck yourself

I'm indian. They might think i'm too religious?

Oh man, I'm 21 and I love sweet and innocent girls. It's such a shame that they're a bit hard to come by. My perfect woman would be sweet, innocent and inexperienced. Haven't met her yet though. There must be more guys like me so chin up.

I was sweet and innocent, what you say happens to me, i go out and get male attention im the 'cute' one, i always get refered to as cute and pretty never hot or sexy.
My male friends sleep with so many girls and i dont want to sleep with them ever buttt they all look after me blah blah as the 'sweet innocent one' they never talk about sex in front of me whereas to all my other mates they do becuase they think im too innocent.

About men tryibng to corrupt you thats true my ex got me as the sweet innocent non experienced virgin, after months of pressuring, emotional abuse, bringing me down all the time i slept with him and quite frankly turned into a horrible bitch because i was always on the defensive side. After he dumped me and broke my heart to be honest i turned into a slut, id get with anything male i didnt care as long as i was rebounding i didnt care, i let men use me for what they wanted thinking it was love when it wasnt, i didnt want to do stuff with them but i never said no i just thought woo im getting male attention and i now after realising my mistakes feel ****, i wish i was the sweet innocent person i was once, dont change for anybody because when the right man comes along he will love you and adore you for being sweet and innocent