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Sick of this ****

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I didn't neg you actually. But i can if you want?

Sorry man, bad day I guess! In seriousness, it will happen eventually, you just need to put yourself in scenarios where you push yourself a little each time in flirting and chatting to girls. In terms of coping, it isn't too abnormal for a 19 yr old to have not had a relationship or sex. I know lots of people in their 20's who have been in your situation (plus a lot of people lie). I would say that a lot of despair comes from seeing relationships as alien, as there is no markable boundary of progress so to speak, and you may also feel like the odd one out (this is like sods law when single!). You just need to have faith that it will happen as long as you focus on improving yourself for you. A lot of people have felt this way before and it is difficult to believe it will happen, but you just need to trust in life.

Hope helps :smile: