Er.
Earlier on a very good point was made about bra fittings. Now, most people (ie guys who don't work in lingerie, and the 75% of girls who are wearing the wrong bra size) are stuck in this rut of AA/A = small, B = okay, C = average/medium, D = big, DD = porn star, anything over = massive.
This is hugely inaccurate!It depends not only on cup size but also on back size! As said above, 28EE is worlds away from 36EE! A girl I know would be judged on sight to have traditionally B cup breasts, but she is in fact a 28D/E. In writing to those who don't know about bras, this looks massive. It isn't.
I, for example, 'look' like I'm a DD, and when guys do that terribly charming thing of estimating bra size by sight, they always say DD. I did use to wear a 36DD, got myself properly fitted and am actually a 30FF, which again sounds massive. I'm not. My chest is very much in proportion with my body.
So, in perspective, to the poster with the disparaging comment, you might not even recognise a D as such, given the nonsensical, outdated and frankly damaging assumptions about visual breast size. Like I said, a 36D will look much bigger than a 28D, so you cannot generalise and say all D cups are 'disgusting'. I realise you are probably a troll given your rude comment on a thread where it does not pertain, but my point stands for those curious/ignorant.
OP- please get yourself to a Bravissimo or similar (see the Lingerie thread for recommendations). Just because the bra you're wearing seems to fit, does not make you that size. Avoid M&S and La Senza at all costs. You haven't specified your size. If you're incorrectly wearing a 36EE, for example, you might actually be a 30G, which is really, really different. Bras for bigger breasts also resemble a small harness if you take apart the lace and the bows, but this is good and prevents your backache! You shouldn't have back pain with a correctly fitting bra. Nor would your chest receive as much negative attention when properly fitted into a good bra.
If you don't believe me just yet, look
here.
However, if what I'm saying is useless as you've been there, done that, got yourself good upholstery and you still have wildly disproportional breasts that cause you intense pain and get you funny looks, then I'm really, really sorry, and I hope you get it sorted out soon.
PS- Also, by covering up your chest completely, you are drawing more attention to it. There is heaps of information online about how to dress larger chests. Go forth and Google