How do I talk to women.

Women will be attracted to you if you're attractive, not because you speak to them in some mysterious new way. There is no "right language", its not a trick.

Just talk to them like you talk to anyone else: show interest in what they say, relate interesting and relevant stories of your own, find common interests, make self deprecating jokes and tease them as well. This is EXACTLY how you talk to your mates.

But talking to them like you would your guy mates gets you friend zoned


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Unattractive guys do not get friend-zoned because of how they talk to girls. They get friendzoned because they're unattractive.

Attractive guys do not get friend-zoned full stop.

so in theory it's all about looks?

Some people do have a gift of the gab though. They know what to say and how to manipulate people.

Lets aim this at average looking men. We cant rely on looks. We need to rely on talk and humour and body language.

For OP, that would be a huge step in the right direction would it not? The guy doesn't even know how to speak to women full stop, I think getting friendzoned is the least of his worries at this point.

Once you are socially competent enough to make female friends, then you can move on to making girlfriends. Don't try and run before you can walk.