This will be long, please keep anonymous.
There's this guy who I got kind of close to at University, It was off putting to me when he expressed quite strong feelings for me really early on. He would text me really long messages telling me he loved me and thinks that I am an amazing person and all this stuff. I didn't feel the same way and I told him this, I then distanced myself from him as I didn't want to hurt him or lead him on.
We stayed friends and I gradually realised over time that there is something there and I do like him as more than a friend. At the time he was having 'fun' and getting to know other girls and seemed like he was pretty much over me. So I left it.
He is an international student from Canada in the UK and I found out today that he's leaving and going back to Canada due to family problems.
I feel really awful about it, he's probably already left by now and is on a plane.
What upsets me even more is that I now know that he was actually being genuine when he said he thinks I'm an amazing person and that he really does like me. As my friend he spoke to and told he was leaving said he said to her I am an ''amazing girl'', she said he didn't have a bad word to say about me
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Why can't I just give somebody a chance? I seem to runaway from people who are actually so lovely and so genuine. We maybe could have had something really good and me being the idiot I am, I end up putting up walls and pushing people away.
I feel like I could actually cry right now.