Really into this guy!

I really like this guy, (I'm pan and he's gay), but I'm only pre-op trans, which is problematic as I still have the body of a girl, so there's no chance between us until I start reassignment, which will hopefully be @ the start of 2015, but what if he finds the one in that time? I'm scared to address this to him and I don't know how to get him. He's so perfect to me and I just don't know. :frown:

Any advice? :biggrin:

EDIT: Forgot to mention- I am not trans for this guy in question, I was still trans before I even met him. :colonhash:

So don't go off on one please. :ta:

Spoiler

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 1

Double Agent

18

Youre pan? Wtf does that mean? I literally can't keep up with these stupid labels people put on themselves.

Reply 2

yaboy nobenders

You're pan

I am frying pan

he is sauce pan

wtf...

Reply 3

Valyrian

18

Pan is apparently personality over gender o.o

Posted from TSR Mobile

Reply 4

Infraspecies

16

You either get over your compunctions, talk to him about it, and hope it works out, or you say nothing and wait and see.

Those are the only two options.

Reply 5

White Dress

what the **** is this is

Reply 6

Rainbow Student

OP

20

Original post by Double Agent

Youre pan? Wtf does that mean? I literally can't keep up with these stupid labels people put on themselves.

Haha it means pansexual, Google it. :tongue:

Reply 7

Rainbow Student

OP

20

Original post by yaboy nobenders

You're pan

I am frying pan

he is sauce pan

wtf...

Haha

I'm pansexual :yy:

Reply 8

Rainbow Student

OP

20

Original post by Infraspecies

You either get over your compunctions, talk to him about it, and hope it works out, or you say nothing and wait and see.

Those are the only two options.

Fair enough, thanks. :ta:

Reply 9

Rainbow Student

OP

20

Original post by lilypear

Pan is apparently personality over gender o.o

Posted from TSR Mobile

Correct.

And why the o.o ????

Reply 10

Valyrian

18

Original post by Rainbow Student

Correct.

And why the o.o ????

o.o because I wasn't very sure, hence I didn't want to seem like I was 100% sure just in case :P

Reply 11

Rainbow Student

OP

20

Original post by lilypear

o.o because I wasn't very sure, hence I didn't want to seem like I was 100% sure just in case :P

Ah OK

Man...

Original post by yaboy nobenders

You're pan

I am frying pan

he is sauce pan

wtf...

Rolling on the floor LAUGHING!

Reply 14

und3niable_

14

Original post by Rainbow Student

I really like this guy, (I'm pan and he's gay), but I'm only pre-op trans, which is problematic as I still have the body of a girl, so there's no chance between us until I start reassignment, which will hopefully be @ the start of 2015, but what if he finds the one in that time? I'm scared to address this to him and I don't know how to get him. He's so perfect to me and I just don't know. :frown:

Any advice? :biggrin:

EDIT: Forgot to mention- I am not trans for this guy in question, I was still trans before I even met him. :colonhash:

So don't go off on one please. :ta:

I know a pre op trans FTM who is very happy with his gay boyfriend, who simply accepts it...Your chance may have gone by 2015 so you can try seize it whilst you can?

Reply 15

Rainbow Student

OP

20

Original post by und3niable_

I know a pre op trans FTM who is very happy with his gay boyfriend, who simply accepts it...Your chance may have gone by 2015 so you can try seize it whilst you can?